The moment we believe ourselves to be enlightened and think that "others" are not - is the moment when we fall from loving grace back into our deluded, separated dreaming. Then we catch ourselves again and again in this process, wanting to get rid of the one, the separate self / the ego - who thinks like that - once again to be deluded by the separate self, the ego wanting to get rid of the ego. Then again it hits us and we laugh our clothes off so to speak. Everything is ok as it is, stop judging yourself. What is important to see is that each and every time we catch ourselves in this delusion - it directly implies that we are out of the game, standing outside the games of mind - simply, lovingly, watching the mind and it's creative process. You are loved, there is nothing that wants to hurt you at any time.