Do you believe in ‘you’? Truly, honestly..do you? Do you trust yourself to make the right choices? Do you trust in the process of learning from the errors of your mistakes when some of those seemingly “right choices” prove to be off beam? There are times when I have looked back at my life, at the quality of people I have encountered along the way - some good, some bad, and some, teetering on both sides of the spectrum. But the common denominator in these relationships will always be me. I have had to ask myself some serious questions. Why do I attract a certain type of man? A man who views me as an object of their desire, someone to conquer, until feelings are exposed, and presumed to be of their sole ownership; comfortable. Until the realisation that I am proving to be much more than “Those women..” becomes too blinding a light to be blanketed by the close of an emotional curtain. Why do these men keep coming around, I would ask myself. Because some men are incapable of dealing with strength beyond their own; some only appreciate the vision of a strong woman..not a strong woman herself – she’s too much, and he’s not enough, as yet. This too has lead me to question over the years, why do I attract a certain type of friendship? And the answer is one in the same. Men, women - equally human, and there is no distinction in the element that some people will inevitably want to see you do well in life, but please, not better than themselves – again, it’s just all too much. The key to a successful existence is knowing that none of this has anything to do with you. The thoughts, actions, or lack thereof, of someone else has absolutely nothing to do with you. Nothing. Don’t take it personally; and don’t become clouded with the obsession to know it all. Everyone is going through their own stage of being human.
Dutch dancers!! @petitafro they are so amazing ❤ I feel like making a video on this choreo❤❤
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Choreo By @petitafro Dancers @angel.afrodance & @petitafro || #makulusa#makulusachallenge By @rayvanny 🔥 || Haya Nisaidieni Kuwa tag team WCB 🙌 @diamondplatnumz @iamlavalava @wcb_tweets @wcb_wasafi @mama_dangote @harmonize_tz @nweworldwide @aurelea_nwe