Be happy sometimes no matter what, problems can’t go away of your life entirely. It’s something you live with, smile with it and also sleep with. It something which can’t be cure but it can be manage for you to be able to enjoy life as it’s. The fact that you think consistently will not give you solution to all the problems you are going through. But a little smile, little happiness will give you the mandate that you have the confidence to cope with it as the way it comes so that you can have space for happiness in life. Your life keep suppressing day in and day out because problems have become a king which always rule your kingdom. The act of crying over your problems within will not bring a any solution unless you learn how to manage it to be able to know the validity of your life than the problems you are going through. Thinking always give you another responsibility to deal with that is, depression, loneliness, frustration, rejection as well as life full of doubt. You often worry in dealing with problems but yet still there is no solution found. Whereby you could have learn how to manage it to be able to move on. Problem happen to be a dangerous weapon which can be very harmful to your life unless you give a room to operate in your life. You have been thinking always about series of problems but the end, add another problems to the existing once in your life. Be strong to learn how to cope with problems so that you can have chance to make extraordinary things happen your life. Big smile stay bless and be positive always - Gyan Andrew
note: please send this post to anyone you know is suicidal or is thinking of suicide 💛
Sometimes I wonder if people realize how PERMANENT suicide is. No matter how much they feel like their life will never get better, trust me it will. I personally know someone who attempted suicide many times a while back. They were hopeless. They truly wanted an end to all their pain and suffering. But they weren't successful. And now, today, this person is so much happier. They've graduated high school and started on a college journey to become a psychologist and help others who were once in their shoes. This person never would've known where they would've been had their life been taken. You don't know where you'll be in ten years. In five years. NEXT year. Don't give up. What's life without storms and winds? What's life without complications? Let what you're going through make you STRONGER. Don't find a permanent solution to such a temporary problem. And if all of this isn't enough for you, listen to this: "A writer for the New York Times interviewed a series of people who had survived jumping off the Golden Gate Bridge. Every person she interviewed admitted that about two thirds of the way down, they realized that every seemingly meaningless problem that caused them to jump was fixable. Every single one." If EVERY SINGLE golden gate bridge suicide survivor regretted jumping, then every jumper who died must've regretted their choice as well. Heck, mostly every suicide ever was probably a regret to each of the victims. Don't let pain consume you. You are strong. You are strong. You are STRONG. Look in the mirror and tell yourself you are strong. And believe it, because I do. 💜💙
Oh my God.
Tonight I decided to read my old diaries and I found the letter I wrote when I tried to kill myself with pills 4 years ago, and it was so hard read it again.
I just can say that I am grateful for being here today after all that pain, darkness and emptyness. I am not perfect but stronger, and that is what matters because without it I would probably being already dead.
I will not lie, I can stop crying since I found those pieces of paper, but I am also happy of being here holding my life in my arms, holding that broken girl of 4 years ago with so much love that hurts.
Here I want to promisse you my dearest myself and to everyone who is passing through a rough path. "You aren't going to being that alone anymore, I love you, you are loved, and please never ever forget that, you are so much more than a job, a size and mistakes, you are a human with a beautiful soul that deserve love no matter what. The pain won't last forever". #suicidal#suicide#beatingdepression#depressed#suicidaletters#prorecovery#recoverywarrior#notalone#mentalhealth#mentalhealthmatters#shameless#stronger#staystrong#borderline#bpdrecovery#bpd#eatingdisorders#beatingana#beatingmia