So yesterday I ate a few things that were not keto friendly and my body felt it immediately afterwards. I felt sluggish and just all around crappy. Just gotta get back at it. #noexcuses#lessonlearned#stayingfocused
I’m not afraid of working for wat I want. So don’t ever think I am impressed by ur money or possessions. Clearly u should have them, but if it doesn’t increase the zeros in my bank account I’m not impressed... #wontholdnothingovermyhead#lessonlearned
Are you choosing happiness -or- finding happiness?
You might be thinking “ummm what’s the difference” and maybe some people don’t think there is. That’s ok. I think there is a difference.
In a matter of 6 days everything I thought I had figured out has now changed. It’s been a tough few days of just trying to make plans now and live in this new reality. It hasn’t been easy. I’ve cried a lot. And this isn’t to say the tears are over or a post to get pity but rather I want to tell you I am CHOOSING happiness.
I feel like I’m in a bad movie and I just stare at disbelief that this is where I’m at right now. But you know what, I’m alive. I’m healthy. I’m smart. I’m relentless. As long as I have breath in my lungs, I can make a change. I can choose to live in the moment. I can choose to not get caught up in the meaningless stress or pressure of this world. And I am not waiting to “find happiness” I am not going to hope by some miracle I stumble upon a life that I like and will make me happen. I am going to actively pursue to be happy. I am choosing happy today and everyday.
So while things aren’t perfect, there’s still time. So I randomly did my hair and makeup to feel better about me. Sometimes that’s all it takes. Sometimes it is just a small difference. But in every choice I’m making I am intentionally trying to make the choice that will make me happy. That will give me peace and contentment in this life. I know I will fail and struggle but now I have the clarity of what and how to pursue it.
Choose happy my friends 💕
#Lessonlearned I’ve been struggling with this idea lately, then God comes and puts things right back into perspective. #RIP old friend, you will be missed. 💔🙏🏽 Make sure the people you care about know you care. Life is way too short.
Suatu sore berguru dengan millenials @alamandas Alamanda Shantica Santoso ex VP Tech Gojek, Now Founder Binar Academy.
Usia 13 th sudah bisa coding, bongkar2 website, untuk paham cara buatnya.
Usia 17 th ayah sakit harus mulai kerja cari nafkah antara lain mengajar matematika, fisika dll.
Usia 18 th keluar rumah belajar hidup mandiri sambil kuliah
Usia 21 th punya perusahaan pembuat website yg saat itu belum banyak pemainnya.
Lalu perkaya pengalaman dengan berkiprah di beberapa perusahaan Start up.
2 th ikut mengembangkan bisnis Gojek sbg Vp Tech.
Sekarang punya Binar Academy , sekolah gratis untuk orang muda lulus seleksi dilatih agar Indonesia punya banyak programmer2 handal mendunia.
Sudah menghasilkan ratusan programmer yang ditempatkan di banyak perusahaan besar.
Siapa guru dia?
"Guru sekolah kehidupan bisa siapa saja. Bisa supir kita, anak gelandangan yg kita temui, bahkan dari binatang kesayangan":
Apa yang ditanamkan orangtuanya sejak dini?
"Berbuat baik. Mandiri.Bertanggung jawab".
Kerjakan yang berdampak kebaikan untuk kebaikan.
Obrolan sore ini harusnya saya rekam, krn terlalu banyak pelajaran yang memberi inspirasi yang bisa saya bagi.
Dasar millenials, Saya baru terfikir, dia malah sudah merekam obrolan sejak awal jumpa, dengan Hpnya. Katanya krn semua yg ia temui adalah guru. Rekaman obrolan selalu dia dengarkan kembali di waktu luang agar wawasan yg pernah diterima kelak berguna.
Speechless... #millenials#guru#lessonlearned#blessed ❤️ #glow
12. New Perspective — My right shoulder is upset with me and I haven’t been able to do a #downdog like this for about a week now (photo cred to @emily_0sborne circa Aug. 2017). I thought it would mean the death of my beloved Ashtanga yoga practice (which calls for a down dog between nearly every pose). I was wrong. Thanks to @katkoher @balanceyogaatlanta I learned it was ok to modify with...wait for it...active child’s pose. Seriously. The new perspective here is that I believed I had to suffer to “do it right.” This is true for most of my endeavors , too. I know. I’m working on it. The biggest surprise, though, was finding how much more I *enjoyed* and surrendered to my practice when I wasn’t forcing my shoulders and upper traps to make the down dog shape despite their protests. Lesson: Listen to your body. Modify. Get your pride and ego out of your way. —Playing catch up for @michellevandepol’s #startwithgratitude photo challenge. #ashtangayoga#downdogproblems#injuredshoulder#humility#lessonlearned#namaste
For a long time I wanted to change my personality. Not because I didn’t like it but because I thought I was NOT properly loving people. The people that were pointed out as what love should look like, were nothing like what I looked like. I kept trying to change. To be bubbly. To be over the top. It was a MESS. Finally God sat a sister down and let me know that love is not a personality. Love is expressed through all of us in different ways and if I were to change into what I was not I was actually doing the opposite of what I was trying to accomplish. .
1 Corinthians 13 gives us a good outline of the attributes of love. While reading vs 3 I was shocked. You mean I could give everything I own away and I could even die for the Gospel but if it isn’t rooted in love it’s pointless?
God is love and our hearts must be rooted and planted in Him for real lasting change to occur. There is not one person on this earth that can embody all that He is. We all have a part to play. Play your role. If your heart is in the right place your personality will follow. Don’t overthink it. Just be who He created you to be. Love isn’t a personality, it’s a heart posture. Be rooted in Christ. You’ll love who you see in the mirror! #love#Godislove#lessonlearned