's post (rant)
Okay so I have never actually liked a girl like sexually or as a girlfriend and I recently did her name was Kylie and she was so sweet, nice, ect.
But she wanted me to respond to EVERYTHING she posted on her story but I couldn't.
So she freaked out on me and stated sayin mean shit and pushing me away so I didn't stop her because if she didn't want me in her life im not gonna stop her.
Well she blocked me on her story and started talkin shit about me on her story and it made me fuckin upset.
And so much more shit went one
But what I learned from loving a girl is they all have a secret side that they don't show until the last minute.
Tip Kylie: if you keep on pushing LOYAL people away one day you will have no one but fakes ass people ❤️
And I'm still single and happy
“...and it may be that you #dislike a thing that is #good for you and that you #like a thing that is #bad for you. God knows but you do not know.” (Quran 2:216)
The life of this world was designed by our Creator to maximize our #chances of living a blissful life in the Hereafter. When we face trials, they help us grow and mature into human beings who are able to function effortlessly in this transient world.
God has not #abandoned us in face of the temptations and trials we face in this world, He has equipped us with potent weapons. Three of the most important are patience, gratefulness, and #trust . The great Islamic scholar of the 14th century CE, Ibnul Qayyim said that our #happiness in this life and our salvation in the Hereafter depend on patience. “Verily! I have rewarded them this Day for their patience; they are indeed the ones that are successful.” (Quran 23:111) “...to be firm or patient in pain or #suffering , and adversity, and throughout all #periods of #panic . Such are the #people of truth, the God fearing.” (Quran 2:177)
The Arabic word for patience is sabr and it comes from a root word meaning to stop, #detain , or #refrain . Ibnul Qayyim explainedthat having patience meant having the ability to stop ourselves from #despairing , to refrain from #complaining , and to control ourselves in #times of #sadness and #worry . Prophet Muhammad’s son in law Ali ibn Abu Talib defined patience as “seeking God’s help”.
Whenever we are beset by sadness and worry our first reaction should always be turning to God. By recognizing His Greatness and Omnipotence, we begin to #understand that God #alone can ease our troubled #souls . God Himself advised us to call on Him. “And (all) the Most Beautiful Names #belong to #Allah , so call on Him by them, and leave the #company of those who belie or #deny (or utter impious speech against) His Names.” (#Quran 7:180)
"And certainly, We shall #test you with #something of fear, hunger, #loss of #wealth , lives and #fruits , but #give glad tidings to the #patient ones.” (Quran 2:155) “Therefore, #remember Me (#God ) and I will remember you, and be #grateful to Me (for My countless #Favours on you) and never be ungrateful to Me.” (Quran 2:152) “If God helps you, none can #overcome you; and if He #forsakes you, who is there after Him that can help you? And in God (#Alone ) let #believers put their #trust .” (Quran 3:160)
#Sadness and #worry are part of the human condition. Life is a series of moments. At the two extremes are #joyful moments that make our #hearts sing with #gladness and #dark moments that plunge us into sadness and worry. In between is real life; the highs, the lows, the #mundane and #boring , the sweetness, and #light . ✨It is in these times that the believer must try to establish a connection to God.
The believer must forget a bond that is #unbreakable . When the joy of life fills our hearts and #minds we must not forget that it is a blessing from God and equally when we are faced with sadness and worry we must realize that this too is from God, even though at first glance we may not see the #blessing .
God is the Most Wise and the Most Just. Whatever condition we find ourselves in, and no matter what we are forced to confront, it is imperative that we open our eyes to the fact that God knows what is good for us. Though we #shy away from facing our fears and worries, it may be that we hate a thing that is good for us and desire something that can only lead to ruin and #damnation .
I love you. remember, I'm the one that's always gonna be here. I'll always be here. we can fix this if you pick me. we'll reach our highest point of happiness in our relationship. I love you. pick me, and then we'll reach high in the sky.💝
When we accept with full submission, that we are no more than #slaves of #God , put on this #earth , to be #tried , #tested and #tempted , #life#suddenly takes on a completely #new meaning. We recognize that God is the one constant in our lives and we recognize that His #promise is #true . When we are overwhelmed by #worry and #sadness , #relief comes from turning to God. If we $live our lives according to His guidance, we gain the means and the ability to overcome any #despair . Prophet Muhammad declared that all the affairs of a #believer are good.
Indeed amazing are the affairs of a believer! They are all for his benefit. If he is #granted ease then he is #thankful , and this is good for him. And if he is afflicted with a #hardship , he perseveres, and this is good for him.
Islam has the answer to all the problems that afflict #humankind . It asks us to look beyond the need for self-gratification, and further still, #beyond the need to acquire possessions. Islam reminds us that this life is but a transient pause on the way to life everlasting. The life of this world is but a fleeting moment, sometimes overflowing with #moments of great joy and happiness but at other times filled with sadness, sorrow, and despair. This is the #nature of life, and this is the human condition.
In the following three articles, we will examine guidance from the Quran and the authentic traditions of Prophet Muhammad in an endeavor to #discover just how Islam suggests that we deal with sadness and worry. There are three key points that will #allow the believer to free himself from the shackles of 21st century life. They are #patience , #gratitude , and #trust in God. In the #Arabic#language , sabr, shukr and tawwakul.