Do not tell anyone they did not deserve whatever happened to them,
Do not trvialise their pain,
Yes. Nobody deserves pain,
And everyone knows it,
But they should not have to listen to you belittle their experience,
Do not take a piece of the puzzle they'll later need to heal,
Do not tell them how they should feel,
Let them live their stories,
And find courage with all it's glory,
To find peace, without and within,
One has to live through the entire misery they are in.
Stand by them, and let then breath,
But above all, do not tell them what they did not deserve,
But show them instead what it feels to be loved.