I can most certainly relate to this post! One time I gave my husband an out! Told him it’s ok, I understood having children was important and that he should go find a young girl with an amazing reproductive system! Offered to divorce him and move out. Luckily for me he declined my ridiculous offer and supported me in seeing my worth without a baby! #infertilitysucks#infertilityjourney#truelove#truthhurts
I've seen this rolling around social media. The response it has been met with ranges from ignorant praise rooted in acute chauvinism to bitter rejection rooted in misguided feminism or pain. Understand that some of the things listed are antiquated but it's the heart to love that matters! Below is my response:
People buck at this because of abuses. I do these things not because of antiquated cultural expectations but rather out of a mature decision based love. Relationships are like gardens that you tend. People complain about weeds but don't want to get their hands in the dirt and tend the garden. I tend him, he tends me and we enter this reciprocal cycle of flourishing. Storms and seasons will come. This is not tit for tat. Sometimes one side of the garden will demand more because of the season and vice versa...however, if both are committed 100%...it will work. Farmers work come what may...even when the crops fail...you salvage what you can and start work on next season. Rich nourishment comes from Rich gardens which come from hard work done in spite of feelings. However, you feel really good when you are eating that home cooked meal. This concept is hard for our fast-food dating culture...high volume, low nutrition. People keep consuming and end up more and more lonely. It's sad really. Your soul, like your body, is looking for quality nourishment NOT just quick & easy.
A veces me preguntan como hago para tener una relación tan linda donde el amor se siente... últimamente he estado pensando en la respuesta y el mejor consejo que puedo dar es que siempre, incluso cuando estén enojados entre ustedes, se digan TE AMO. El hecho de estar enojados no cambia lo que sienten. Incluso estando enojados uno sigue amando. Pequeños detalles como estos hacen que el amor siempre esté presente sin importar cosas tan banales como un estado de ánimo. En al buenas y en la malas recuerdan?
Alguna loca enamorada? Quien dijo yo? #presente ☝🏻😍 #esposafeliz#casados#amor#truelove#mamafit