I found myself in that uncomfortable situation again. Someone asked me for a favor. They had a desperate look on their face as if I was there only hope.
And then I caught myself uttering the words that I usually do when I want to please others, "Yes, of course, I can help out." 🙊
I'm sure you know exactly what I'm talking about.
Your friend asks if you can help her move into her new apartment and you say Yes even though you already made plans in advance. 🏠
A church leader asks if you can help out with the kid's ministry and you automatically agree to help out because they're short handed. 👩👧👧 Your boss asks you to help him on a last minute project and tells you he'll even pay you overtime so you do what you always do and offer your help. 📊
Don't get me wrong, those are all great things to do and show how servant hearted you are. However, whenever you're already feeling stretched too thin, it can take a toll on you and cause unnecessary stress.
Learning to say No was very hard for me. But once I learned how to utter that two lettered word, it completely changed my life. 😊
If you want to reach YOUR goals and live your dreams you have to change your thoughts.
I love to watch people and observe how they interact because I learn something every time!
I see the difference between successful and not. Sometimes I believe I can read energies.
I see these "pseudo -successful" ones who are dressed in nice brands, who are well groomed, have a nice make-up on and nice cloth and really look like they have their stuff together.
BUT don't get tricked Gorgeous!
Listen to them first before you buy their appearance!
Listen to their conversations, what they are up to, how empty they are inside, the topics, the gossip, all the not important stuff but soooooo important to them!
No inspiration, no deeper value or thought, nothing uplifting ONLY gossip and minor things that are made big.
I know that we all know these people that impress us at the first encounter. Who look so good and who seem to have it all together and live their dream life...... But that is only the surface..... They feel so self assured and they talk so loud and they share their thoughts with everybody in a radius of a mile around them and you see....only AIR! Hot AIR! All a masquerade. A masquerade of life of pretending.
If you can: RUN! As fast and as far possible!
When you stick around too long it might rub off!
It is all about your thoughts. Your thoughts create your feelings, your e-motions. With these e-motions, you set yourself up for action.
What you need is inspired action: inspired and massive action. Action without using your brain and your heart does not get you anywhere.
Now gorgeous, please don't think that I scorn these people. For sure they do not create great emotions in me and my instinct tells me to run as fast and as far as I can to find those like-minded, ...full post on FB
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