اولین پناهجوی دوجنسگرا در آمریکا: وقتی من فرایند #پناهندگی ام را شروع کردم در ذهن خودم هیچ شکی نداشتم که باید به عنوان یک دوجنسگرا برای پناهندگی اقدام کنم. بنا بر همان کاری که ما امروز انجام میدهیم من در گوگل کلیدواژه «پناهندگی #دوجنس گرا» را جستوجو کردم. آن موقع نتایج صفحهای که بالا آمد نشان داد که تقاضاهای پناهندگی با ادعای دوجنسگرا بودن شکست خورده است و حتی آدرسی به وبسایت یک سازمان مهاجرتی وجود داشت که نوشته بود تقاضای پناهندگی (#پناهجویی ) بهعنوان یک دوجنسگرا ایده بدی است. همه مطالبی که در اینترنت پیدا میکردم به من گفت که بهعنوان یک دوجنسگرا تقاضای پناهندگی نکنم، بلکه به عنوان یک شخص #همجنس گرا این کار را انجام دهم. قبلاً توسط روزنامهنگارهای هیجانزده و همینطور مردمی که فکر میکردند بیشتر از آنچه که من از هویت خودم میدانم درباره من اطلاع دارند بهاشتباه برچسب «زن همجنسگرا» خورده بودم، اما اینبار قضیه متفاوت بود. بعد از اینکه خانهام را که بهخاطر هویتام ناامن شده بوده ترک کرده بودم، نمیتوانستم در مورد خودم به خودم دروغ بگویم.
من شما را تشویق میکنم که کلیدواژه «تقاضای پناهندگی برای دوجنسگرایان» یا «پناهجوی دوجنسگرا» را جستوجو کنید. داستانهایی که بالا میآیند ناامیدکننده و ترسناک هستند. تا زمانی که این تغییرات اتفاق بیافتند امیدوارم که برای حرف زدن راجع به این موضوع همراهم شوید و مهمتر از آن همراه کسانی از ما شوید که با پیوستن به این گفتوگوها و از بینبردن افسانهها در مورد هویتمان درباره حقیقت دوجنسگرایی صحبت میکنند. تغییر از شما شروع میشود و من از شما میخواهم که در تیم ما باشید.
--- FRIGHT NIGHT ---
Friday, October 13th. (ITS A BI-WEEK!!)
Movie: "Lights Out" @7pm
Haunted Hallway: beginning after movie @8:30
$8 per ticket includes movie and haunted hallway! BE THERE! BRING FRIENDS! #areyouafraidofthedark#frightnight#biweek
(Reposted from when it was #BiWeek )
These pictures are everything because one, they have my queen @sofiacarson in and two, she is wearing her Equality which means so much to me as I'm in LGBTQ community as I'm bisexual. I am going to tell you a little bit of my story of when I came out as bisexual. I knew I was bisexual when I was in primary school but I was too afraid of what people may think. I came out in year 7 (I don't know what grade that would be where you live) sure I got bullied for it, but there were so many people who was so supportive of me. I told my family last because I was scared what they may think of me. Anyway, I told them and they seemed okay about it. I want to thank everyone who inspired me to keep believing and encouraging me to never give up and to always be myself. I want to thank Sofia, Aston, Sarah, Brenna, Cameron, Dianne , all of the Descendants cast and so many more and all of you guys for always believing in me and supporting me. I seriously don't know where I would be without all of you. I wouldn't be as confident as I am now without you in my life. I have so much to thank you all for that I can't express enough in to words. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for always making me smile and cheering me up when I have low days. Thank you all!! Love you all from the bottom of my heart. There's more to this story but I don't want to bore you lol. As you all know I was severely bullied in school and still to this day on the streets. I get bullied for my name (I don't like my name) for my Aspergers and because I'm bisexual. I have severe depression, anxiety too. You guys all make me smile but teaching me that I'm beautiful and unique is beautiful and amazing. You guys all teach me so many amazing things. Like I said before,thank you so much for all your support and love
It means the world to me that you all support me and love me for who I am. It makes me so happy when I see my idols support something close to my heart. They have such beautiful hearts and I love them.
A few days Alec hadn't seen Magnus and when he came this morning to work everything was dark and no one was there. Alec was surprised because normally Magnus was the first at work and was concentrated with his tasks. Clary was not there, too. He was confused and called her:" Hello? Alec?" "Hello, Clary. Where are you? And were is Mr. Bane?" For a short time Alec couldn't hear an answer:" Are... Are you at the top floor?" "Yes?" All this made Alec more and more confused and insecure. Did he forget something? He shook his head a little. Alec was sure he hadn't forgot any appointments:" Magnus is ill." The words took Alec out of his thoughts:" What?" "Normally Magnus don't get sick so easily and he never took a day off. When he do it than he is really not well and he hate it when he get disturbed." Alec felt bad and was really worried:" Hello? Alec?" "Oh, I'm...I'm sorry. I think it's better when-" "No. You are his assistant. You need to take care of him." Alec was not so sure. If Magnus hate it to get disturbed when he was ill it would be better Alec just leave him alone. On the other side he was worried about him because he couldn't hear a single tone out of the loft. It was totally silent. Alec wanted to be there for Magnus and take care of him. He cleared his throat:" Okay, I...I will see what I can do." "Super. When you need help call me." Alec doesn't have the chance to say another word because Clary hung up. Now Alec stood in front of the loft's door. His hands trembled and he was nervous. He was a little anxious about Magnus' reaction but he knocked at the door. He waited for an answer but nothing happened. He knocked a second time but nothing happened again. Alec didn't think anymore because he was more and more worried so he just opened the door and he went inside..../// 😰😰
When Alec looked to the ground Luis noticed his sadness. He took one flower from the bouquet. It was the only one that wasn't burned and gave it to Alec:" Here, for you." Alec looked up and saw Luis' gentle smile. Alec resisted taking the flower and Luis sighted:" It's not reprehensible if you get attention from other people besides Mr. Bane. You deserve it, Alec. Beside that he should be happy to have someone by his side who other people want, too. It's like a compliment. You're not at fault." Alec looked to the side and blushed. Even if Alec doesn't want to accept the fact but Luis was right and he liked the good feeling and attention. Of course he loved Magnus and he was thankful he loved him back but still it was a good thing. He accepted the black tulip and smiled back:" Thank you." When he remind that the others were waiting he laid the flower on the table and wear his mask again. Alec cleared his throat and the lovely smile disappeared:" We need to go now." Luis laughed quietly:" Yes, let's go." Luis wanted to went out of the room when Alec graped his arm and looked seriously at him:" And THIS reminds among us." Luis laid his hand on Alec' and nodded. For some reason Alec trusted him. He had the feeling that he could tell Luis everything without being condemned. He couldn't describe the feeling but he never trusted someone so much beside Magnus and Jace. When they were with the others Izzy and Jace pierced Luis with questions where they had been and for a short time Alec thought he would break his promise. But he was wrong because Luis just lied to them and made up some excuses. Alec was impressed and glad at the same time. Without noticing it Alec had a small smile on his face. He really liked Luis for his personality.....//// 😱🙈
I know I'm late to the party, because #bivisibilityday was like a week ago or something, but these days I've been so busy with pre-Erasmus stuff that I didn't even have the time to take a selfie! Anyway, now I'm here to support my queer fellas 🌈 #bipride#queer#bisexual#bisexuality#biweek#comingout
(the second picture is just something that I found online, and it's awesome so I simply HAD to post it)
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" Hay Alec." " Hay... " Magnus cleared his throat:" Oh, I'm sorry Magnus. This is Luis. He came to us and is from the Institute in Italy." Then he faced Luis:" This is Magnus Bane. High Warlock of Brooklyn." Luis held out his hand:" Hello Mr. Bane." Had Magnus heard that correctly? He was only the High Warlock of Brooklyn? He shook his head a little and pushed these thoughts away. Then he took Luis' hand and shook it:" Hello." He was monotone and numb. Alec still smiled:" So? What kind of mission do we have?" Luis gave documents to Alec and their hands were streaming:" Thank you. I need to bring something in my office and then I will come to you and the others. Magnus let's go." Magnus followed Alec and it didn't escape him that Luis stroke Alec' arm when Alec went past him and it was no accident. Magnus felt how the feeling of jealousy took him over but he ignored it. He knew that Alec would never betray him. It was a dump thought:" What do you want to do when I'm back?" Alec opened the door:" I think I want to -" When they stood in the office Magnus' mouth stood open:" What is... that?" He pointed to the desk and there stood a big flower bouquet but this time with black tulips and a little, silver card. Alec' eyes widened when he read the text:" What is written on it?" Alec didn't answered:" What. Is. Written. On. It. Alexander!?" Alec was nervous and wanted to rip it apart when Magnus took the card from him:"- Alexander, you and I know that we are connected in passion.-" Magnus' jealousy got higher and higher and he wanted to hit someone or something:" Magnus?" But no answer. Magnus snapped his fingers and the flowers stood in flames:" And? Do you still think they are beautiful?" Alec couldn't say anything because Magnus opened a portal and went through it:" Magnus wai-" Alec tried to stop him but it was to late. The portal was closed....////😨😨😨😨😨
Do any of you share her frustrations with your healthcare in regards to your sexuality? I’m bisexual and in my experience, I’ve had some uncomfortable conversations with doctors who are very confused by the fact that I am sexually active and I choose not to be on birth control. As if having sex with a woman is a wild notion. It can be exhausting explaining it over and over again. On the flip side, do you have any good experiences with healthcare and your sexual health? ✨ photo via @plannedparenthood
The next morning Alec stood up early to make coffee and breakfast for both of them. Always Alec was the one who woke up early and it would be a miracle if Magnus wakes up so early in the morning. But Alec liked the silence and loved it to do something good for Magnus. When Magnus woke up the fresh smell of coffee lured him out of the bedroom. Alec sat on the sofa and read a book from Magnus:" Good morning." Alec smiled when he saw Magnus and liked what he saw. Magnus just wore boxers and Alec could see his elegant upper body and legs:" You like what you see?" Magnus grinded when he saw Alec blushed:" Good mor-" When Magnus looked at the kitchen table the flowers still stood there. Alec sighted and walked over to his boyfriend. He hugged him from behind and lay his chin on Magnus' shoulder:" Magnus please... Look they are beautiful and the color remind me a little bit of your cateyes. Don't waste them." He gave him a lovely kiss. Magnus couldn't stand it and turned around to kiss Alec on his lips:" I hope you really know who you belong to." Both laughed when Alec' phone vibrates. He rolled his eyes and was annoyed:~ come to the Institute. Now. Jace.~ That was all:" I'm so sorry Magnus. I need to go to the Institute." "It's okay." Magnus was disappointed because he was exited to spend time with Alec. Alec saw that his love was sad and stroke over his cheek:" Hay, don't be sad about it. If you want we can meet after the mission. Just the two of us." Magnus nodded happily:" Should I meet you here?" "No. I come with you otherwise something comes between our date." They got ready and Magnus opened a portal for them. When they reached the Institute a young, black haired man came to them. Magnus raised an eyebrow because when the man saw Alec he had a huge smile on his face and to his horror Alec replied the smile brightly and happily....///
💖💜💙 En Convive Celebramos la Semana de la Visibilidad Bisexual. 💖💜💙 Nuestros amigos bisexuales nos tienen algo que decir, rompamos los mitos que envuelven la bisexualidad.
Cuéntanos sobre aquellos mitos que deseas contarle al mundo que no son ciertos.
[ Inner Child ]
- We all grow, we all are getting old. However, it's important to keep a room for your inner child always. Inner child should be still alive even you're in your 40,50,70.
" The most potent muse of all is our own inner child " -- Stephen Nachmanovitch
Photographer : Cara Sutherland
Foolish Things People Say To Bisexuals
This comic piece has been curated from the responses received from several Bi-friends and readers we interviewed. (Full series: www.gaysifamily.com)
Artwork by Priya Dali @priyadali