THIS! Ok I’m going to offer you two perspectives here: 1. I’ve been with partners where there has been zero eye contact and also with partners where there has been continuous eyes contact. If you want to FEEL that extra connection with your lover, then you need the eye contact! It makes a huge difference! And 2. If you find yourself unable or unwilling to have eye contact at SOME point while making love/ having sex, then I would venture to say that you should not be engaging with that partner. And if so, ask yourself: why can’t you bring yourself to even look at them? 🤔🤔
The easiest way to kill a relationship is simply removing it as a priority in your life.
Instead of looking at it as a power source that feeds you, just like food, water and air, you begin to act as though it can survive without attention.
It not only needs attention, but it needs a lot of love.
It’s often said that love is a verb.
We can love someone in our minds and hearts, but if we aren’t constantly demonstrating that love and acting with love, it’s a moot point.
So what happens if you’ve reached the point of chasm?
You can feel the distance, the distance has impacted your libidos, and you no longer treat each other with love.
You’ve become guarded and no longer trust the good intentions of the other person.
You lay boundaries. And if you want to continue the relationship, and pull out of the downward spiral you’ve found yourselves in, you revert back to love.
Love is the great Windex (or ozone, if you make choices like me) that can wipe away the stains of the past. You begin acting with more love.
You speak with love behind your words. You choose words that are loving.
Pablo Neruda once used the phrase, “the never-ending simple tenderness” in a poem and it always stuck with me as the key (or one of them) to maintaining love.
It is the constant choice to be loving and kind.
The loving kindness reinforces: It is safe for me to trust you. You see me. You cherish me. I can open to you. ~ Kim Anami
♏️◾️Obsidian - Crystal energetic healing ♏️◾️
Properties: created by the cooling of lava rapidly, becoming glass. Usually a rich black shiny hue. ♏️◾️
Planetary allies: Pluto (& Saturn). ♏️◾️
Sign Ruler: Scorpio ♏️◾️
Elemental aliens: fire, water, earth
Energetics: An intense strength and magnetic stone, it is born of fire. It has the power to attract strong energy (positive or negative). A transformative stone due to its original form as a liquid that was heated by intense fire and transformed into stone. Obsidian helps us transition from life to death and deal with powerful life-changing events or periods in our lives.
Do you trust your intuition?
December 16th!! We are going to tap into our deepest knowing. #wealwaysknow !
Go beyond duality, beyond mind. Enter and awaken your 3rd eye 👁 #trustyourself
Your 3rd eye, or Ajna chakra is represented (physically) by the pineal gland. When cleared and activated your inner vision and psychic channels come online. You are no longer bound to the external senses for your knowing. Your heightened intuition guides you.
‘Who Am i?’ Is a 2hour experience for personal transformation. Come center your mind, move your body, and deepen your breath as we provide a space for #selfinquiry
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Crystal of the Day 🌟
Carnelian --- creativity crystal
Can cleanse other crystals .
Protects against glamours (spells), envy and the Evil Eye. Bringing good fortune to the wearer, it prevents blood from rushing to the head to cause precipitate action.
Be eloquent, creative and bold. Do not back down. Trust your intuitive perception. Distinction in your career lies ahead. Be a mentor. Alleviate stress , take time to play. You are a tower of strength during sorrow. Stay anchored in the present. Let go of emotional ties or outdated projects holding you back. Beware a charismatic person.
Chakra- base and Sacral
Timing- Taurus, Cancer, Leo, Virgo and Scorpio
Soul Path- expressing soul vitality
Try doing your kegel exercises with a Yoni egg. Yoni eggs add a slight weight to help make those muscles stronger. Using real stones and crystal offer healing, absorbing or letting go of certain energies. Click the link in my bio to order yours and start your journey of vaginal health and wellness.💫👑
OK so it's not throwback Thursday yet I know, but was just feeling a little nostalgic and looked back through my IG feed to find this 👆 photo of my first ever craft fair about 16 months ago, to yesterday's stall 👉 (Swipe) 😄 never give up on your dreams! Keep going and do what you love, don't be afraid to make mistakes and keep learning, keep practicing and experimenting, push beyond your comfort zone and most importantly PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE! 😉 🙏 🙌 🌈 😃
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