everyone's got their own share of secrets. always try to understand others first instead of judging them, no matter what part of them it is that you're judging. everyone has a story you know nothing about. never belittle anyone's struggles, whether you've been through it yourself or not. be careful with phrases like "I've seen worse". instead of getting irritated at people who don't have a positive attitude - because we all have bad days, right? - try to be there and offer a helping hand. BUT ALSO remember that you're not obliged to be someone's counselor and be there for them 24/7. you're just human and you have the right to rest sometimes, too. and you can't help someone else without helping yourself first. and of course, sometimes you can't help yourself, sometimes you need help from someone else, which has nothing to do with weakness. we all need help sometimes. but then again, don't expect that other person to solve all of your problems on their own (unless they're a professional).
so that's my message for you this time. be kind to others. and, just as important - be kind to yourself.
take care beautiful people💕