Attention is the key to so many things related to our lives. We know our relationships are more satisfying if we actually pay attention to one another. We know that attention is important, but we may not know that attention has direct biological results. What we pay attention to is literally what we will build in our brain tissue. Attention is noticing and being with something without trying to change it. We often mistake attention for judgment. We think about attention as a "critical" function. Attention is not critical. Judgment is. Attention is neutral. We begin to pay attention to something and then we start to judge it, evaluate it, categorize it and, yes, generally "criticize" it. Attention takes the time to fully explore, to discover whatever there is to know about something, to watch as things change by themselves without our trying to ‘fix" anything. Attention is patient and attention is kind. No rush. No burden. No criticism. So how do we let go of judgment and simply pay attention? How do we practice being with whatever is happening and learning from it? Welcome everything; push away nothing. That might sound odd at first. Why would we "welcome" something unpleasant? This is not about seeking difficulty. The word "welcome" confronts us, asking us to look without judgment and criticism, to invite ourselves to be open to whatever comes, to simply pay attention. The more you pay attention, without pushing away or judging what is happening, the more you will find yourself learning not only about others but about yourself. Therefore, paying attention is ultimately an act of loving kindness towards ourselves. I challenge you to practice simply paying attention, not rushing to judgment. Welcome everything; push away nothing. Thoughts?
So tired of these fake littles 💆♂ They don't understand that Daddy Dom's can't be the daddy dom all the time, were real people and have bad days and breakdowns as well life does that to everyone. So don't be so fucking selfish with the attention, love, care and rest to not think that your dom needs compassion as well. Daddy Dom's always try there best to see their little girl smile cause it makes us happy but sometimes reality hits and we just need some compassion and love. This community is filled with Fake daddy's but now out of 4+ years of being in this community I've noticed that there are a huge amount of fake littles who don't know how to keep a ddlg/bdsm relationship at the end if the day its all about compassionate and love and if you the reader don't understand this then don't bother going in my dm's begging of or asking me to be your daddy I have standards and so far 90% don't meet up to it 💩 anyway comment on this crush