Listen @iamalesharenee just gave me my entire life this morning. Yes! It’s okay to be single ladies. Make sure toy have yourself together before you get together with someone else. #xoInspirationalWord#relationship#dating
Day 158: What food do YOU buy when you're angry? Asking for science.
[Sunday night, Canadian Thanksgiving weekend:]
Well, I didn't end up seeing the baby daddy yesterday, or running away to the ex–Imaginary Husband's work. Instead, I went angry grocery shopping and bought a turkey big enough for 17 people + all the fixin's... but all of that food was only for me and my kid.
So today at 9 am, I texted my married bestie, "Do you guys wanna come over for dinner???"
And even though they had already had a turkey dinner for lunch, they came over for another turkey dinner for dinner, and we ate and drank and were merry, and I was glad that the baby daddy bailed on our family Thanksgiving plans so that I could spend Thanksgiving with my really good friends.
You asked me to write about fatphobia and dating so I did. “So, according to the census, fat women don’t deserve love, their bodies are only reduced to an object only used for pleasing sexually, and no one who is socially attractive should ever want a fattie.
Before, I go any further I want to give folks who indulge in fatphobia a few facts:
Fat people are human beings. Stop asking fat people to hide themselves. We are allowed to take up as much space as we want. Don’t worry about why fat people are fat. Do you worry about why skinny people are skinny? You are not a physician. Clearly, you aren’t smart enough. Fat people deserve love. Fat people deserve intimacy. If you like fat women, that’s okay. Stop allowing your friends to dictate who you love. Stop being a coward and enjoining in fatphobic rhetoric when you truly don’t feel that way. And, lastly fat people aren’t fetishes. So, stay out of my DM.
By no means am I saying that smaller women and men don’t get picked on or objectified, but we don’t experience mass skinny-phobia were a model has loads of trolls under her photos saying things like omg, she’s just so small, is she even healthy? Is she anorexic? Why doesn’t she just eat a sandwich? She’s so ugly, who’d want to be that thin?” Let’s chat ☕️ about your dating experiences as a WOC or a plus-sized person.
Photo: @laurenj.williams *Full Blog Post in Bio*
Every couple years I like to make drastic moves that will push me to a breaking level. I increase my requirements. I am always looking to position myself in better environments. Every year, every month, everyday. I am looking to create better relationships. When I founded The Mortgage Guy l, I got a 1 bedroom apartment in West Hollywood for @sylsan06 and myself where we paid $1,500 a month. It was only 1 bedroom but it put me in a better environment. I also stopped working from home and got a $1,500 a month office lease also in West Hollywood.
The value I received from this move was immense. I increased my vision and created so many powerful relationships. I was inspired and motivated on a daily basis by just rubbing shoulders with people winning at a higher level. It was so contagious that in less than a year I out grew my office to an $8,000 a month lease on yet a better environment known as Sunset Plaza. I also moved to a high rise tower where I paid $7,000 a month known as Shoreham Towers. Going from 3k a month to 15k a month for just an office and living expense was tremendous. The results were even more tremendous. I don’t say this to brag but with hope that I can help inspire billions of people that anything is possible.
Today I am happy to take another step in the right direction to my ultimate dream and move my family to an even better environment and spoil them in excess. Can’t wait for the surprises life has in store for me and my family for 2018.
In order for you to operate in loving union with another, you must embody loving sovereignty, passion, and peace within yourself.
Fully in love.
You must become your own lover.
Be the one you seek.
Let yourself fall weak at your own knees
and turn yourself on to your own erotic glance.
Rock yourself to sleep and cry on your own shoulder and wake yourself up to that warm chaga tea.
Buy the flowers and the lingerie and literally merge all the pieces of who you are until you don't need anything or anyone
but you'll gladly take a delicious reflection of your highest essence when aligned.
We were told a lie, a fairy tale- that we needed another to be complete.
That illusion is what keeps us separate and alone.
The only one you NEED is WITHIN you now.
Find her. Find him. Gaze within.
And undress yourself slowly, sensually... undress yourself bare naked in front of that generous soul.
Whatever distortion about "finding the one" you have will fall away... and you can rest your head against the unconditional acceptance and omnipresent truth of your higher self.
The one you are looking for
(PS: I'm stoked to share with you all the photos from this recent shoot + all the love + sex codes coming in hotttttttt. Get excited!)
I think I’ll keep him. Happy (late) Anniversary, William. I love you to the moon & back. ✨🎅🏻🌙 #11years#themillertons
Beauty and the Fat Beast. Thank God to have to you in my life. My best partner 😍👌 #dating#kwktsc