HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY DEAR// Welcome to 9! Mommy sees you growing up. I’m so proud of you. You’re so beautiful to me inside and out. If I️ stare too much, forgive me. You are still mind-blowing to me. If I️ kiss you too much, I’m just trying to get as many in before you reach your double digits and may choose to cut me off. If I️ take too many pictures, I’m just trying to capture all the moments I️ want to remember. Like this one— you are so handsome! You saw Chance The Rapper the night before and pulled together this look. Nothing but #swag baby. I️ love you! I️ love how you see yourself and how you’re not afraid to project your light! Keep shining baby! You woke up this morning so happy to get to #9 ; you were focused and in honoring your new big boy self, handled your business this morning without me or Daddy having to repeat ourselves or remind you of anything! Oh and great job #debating your brother and speaking up for yourself! You’re ready for #9 ... May you have an amazing year of #growth#wisdom#love#fun and #laughter#HappyBirthday#Nasir#Nov16th#InTheLandOfNineCandles 🎂
Kira-kira sebulan lalu, kami belajar mengenai materi kualitas penduduk Indonesia melalui kegiatan #debat antar kelompok. Mana di antara 3 hal ini (pendidikan, pendapatan, dan kesehatan) yang paling penting dalam menentukan kualitas penduduk.
Learning process was good at that time, the class was "live" and the students were very active and enthusiastic in giving their opinion and arguing each other... At the end of the lesson, before leaving the class room, a very nice student in the class came to me and said this thing : " ms... aku g mau belajar debat lagi... hati aku rasanya jadi engga enak... hatinya jadi enggak bersih ms..." Masyaa Allah... Me : thats fine Rafi. It means you learn something from the lesson. How you controll your feeling... your emotion... belajar menyampaikan pendapat, berargumen dengan santun. Menghargai orang lain.
Kita belajar, dalam kehidupan... sebaiknya memang kita tinggalkan debat. Seperti nasihat Imam Syafi'i... karena berdebat akan mengeraskan hati dan memunculkan rasa dengki. .
We must have assumed that all children need for normal healthy development is a loving relationship with their mother, and that dads are there as support for the mother and to support the family financially but are not required for the healthy development of the children. But that belief is skewed because men just like women have different ways of raising their children. Neither is necessarily better at parenting than the other; both genders have their own attributes.
We have to start getting away from that idea and realize the dad’s influence is as great. These conclusions came after an examination of data from studies in which children and adults were asked how loving their parents were.
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