If we do not take seriously the words of the people we are supposed to protect, we are all complicit in what happens next.
It bears repeating.
We are ALL complicit in what happens next.
If we cannot tell the good men in our lives our concerns and be taken seriously, that is a sad day indeed.
So TELL the good men in your life your experience. And good men, listen. You must listen. Let’s take each other seriously.
From @lilmuli - I refuse to let people like these insult and get away with it! Why are people so angry though how do you draw a child into such stupid talk! To you Mr Blue suit Watch the interview on Youtube preferably when sober since you are clearly kinda inebriated (google that word lest you think it's the name of a country). I asked her mother about phones and then asked her if she's had any issues raising a teenager such as boyfriend drama. Did I at any point direct a boyfriend question to her! Unless you grew up in some hole in a pit latrine most 14 years olds have crushes at this age it's part of growing up! But then again call me that name you posted to my face and let's square it out man to woman since you choose to hide behind your private account. Kazi yako ni kuchungulia tu to see what I'm up to lately! Men with cheap blue suits lol did you wash and iron your suit instead of drycleaning it bruh?! Don't be mad at me it ain't my fault someone hurt you. #saynotocyberbullying#saynotokeyboardwarriors#enoughisenough
STILL ON THE MATTER ...TANZANIA
OzzyBee received The Pan African Award 2017 "Minor Award on Entertainment & Child Advocacy" alongside dignitaries from 36 African Countries.
Hmmm!!! Cooling off with some mouth watering dishes;
CARE TO JOIN ME?
#Repost from @lilmuli with @regram.app ... This "dad" calls people assholes! Cheers to your 2 seconds of fame instead of insulting people raise your child to excel in life. Ama you are vexed coz you got an E in kcpe? Shame on you! Perfectionist dad my foot! Look at you with your silly blue suit lol. Is you a sissy or nah! yes I said it! Don't post your poop here. I won't even block you Clearly you are just a stalker 👀 Keep watching bro there's plenty more to come. Look at your silly self right now talking nonsense here...let me hold my peace but I've said it before say anything you want about me but Never insult me! Long post right! My mama always tells me "watu wengine wivu itawamaliza" positive or negative means you are paying attention to what I'm doing and I'm so glad I caught your attention😊 nothing wrong with feedback just DON'T INSULT! this post will stay here you wanted fame! Have it. #saynotocyberbullying#saynotokeyboardwarriors#enoughisenough 🙄🙄
~31 days sober~
I had a really weird dream last night. I was sitting on a train with my kids, heading to our friends (who we are actually visiting this weekend), talking on the phone to someone, telling them how well I’m doing on the wagon. At the same time I was drinking neat gin from the bottle. 🌟
I know right!? What on earth does this mean?!
A few things, I think. Firstly, that this weekend will be a test, and clearly one that subconsciously I’m concerned about. Secondly, that I’ve been less than honest in the past about my boozing. And thirdly, that even in a dream I did not like being drunk. 🌟
I woke up feeling very strange indeed, and who could blame me? I often dream about all manner of things, but they get forgotten almost as soon as I open my eyes. This one and the feelings it’s left me with have stayed with me. 🌟
Wish me luck this weekend - I’ll of course keep you posted. And happy thanksgiving for any followers in the USA 🇺🇸
Hi conscious humans ✌🏽🌿 The job is sadly never ending, busy picking up after others again.. .
These little soya-sauce fish 🐟 from sushi train are causing many issues for our environment.. used for 2x seconds and discarded ending up anywhere!!
this little guy 🐟 was found in the car park, on the road and is now on his way to a recycling bin ♻️ thanks to my intervention. .
Sushi on the go 🍣 then either BYO or grab the provided glass jar of soya-sauce for dine in customers if you must, and quickly (it takes only a moment to pour some over your takeaway sushi. .
I take a spare container out with me when I think I may need to purchase food on, the run it’s Easy Done ✅ .
Please think consciously about your actions.. because for every action that you make a reaction is created. ♻️Reduce ♻️Reuse ♻️Recycle
I've been seeing these posters a lot lately. From bus stops to on buses to the ads on tv. They have a point.
As an adult you have the chance to fend for yourself,you have the chance to leave the situation. You have the chance to understand why? and how?. As an adult,you understand Domestic Violence a lot better. It's easy to see the signs.
As a child,you get told to sit down and shut up,you get told to hide and stay there until "I get you",you hear the screams and the beggings. You notice the sirens. You see the police and ambulances. As a child,you don't understand. It's not fun and games. As a child you want to help the victim but your forced away. As a child,you cover your ears and close your eyes. Every night and day that the child lives with this,they pray it stops and never comes back. No matter how much therapy,the child remembers every little minor detail. A child finds it hard to grow up,they don't understand. A child finds it hard to grow up with the meaning of love,a child learns the signs way too quickly and finds it hard to trust anyone even possible love interests.
A child takes their domestic violent filled childhood to the grave,forever haunting them,no matter how hard they try to push it away.
How do I know this? Because I was that child.
One of my mum's ex (not my dad) caused pain to my childhood. I witnessed things a child shouldn't see in real life. Only my mum and I know what happened and how it ended (it wasn't pretty). I went to a Brave Hearts counsellor to try and help me.I taught myself to ingore it and sweep the past under the rug.
Don't do the same!
Domestic Violence,isn't pretty. We should be more open,abusers shouldn't be free,the abusers should be locked up for their crimes. Victims shouldn't be the one changing their lives,the abuses should be changing.
Not enough is done to help the victims.
Society needs to take charge and help victims and stop helping the abuser get away with their crimes. Stop the victims from forcing them to stay or to ingore the situation instead teach them how to leave and teach them report their abuser.