Note to self... #heartmatters#mondaymotivation (Philppians 4:8,9) Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable if anything is excellent or praiseworthy think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.
When it comes to moving on, it takes a whole lot beyond saying or wishing for it.
Few years ago after my heartbreak, I kept saying I had forgiven him or that I was moving on but I was still stuck in some acts like:
1. Checking his online updates.
2. Waiting for a day he will come back to beg.
3. Discussing with people who were close to him just in case they can make things work for us.
4. Refusing to meet new people or open up myself to new relationships.
All of these are signs that I had not moved on.
You may fall in this category too.
You can't just remain in that dark corner for long. Your life needs to move.
I know it's hard but spending all your day waiting for an apology or checking your ex's update can keep you stuck for a long time.
So what can you do?
1. Understand that you have broken up.
2. Quit the blame game. It's really not necessary.
3. Change the meanings you have attached to the relationship. For me, I had to start seeing the heartbreak as God's way of calling me to a higher purpose bigger than myself.
For you, it might be a call to personal discovery, significance, confidence or true healing.
4. Be willing to go out and mingle. You need to also work on not judging everyone you meet.
5. Seek for help to heal and discover yourself. You can read books like my book "How I Got The Ring" which comprises of my healing journey, positioning tips and how I finally made a better steps into relationships. You can also book for a personal session where you share your issues personally and confidentially. All issues are peculiar so you can't get all the help you need from posts alone.
If you refuse to heal from the past, deal with the issues or come out of the present situation you are, it can be difficult to attract healthy partners, build healthy relationships or become attractive personally.
Think about it.
Hey guys! So my big #fantheory is that #apple skipped the #iphone9 to honor #planetpluto !!!! As you know about ten years ago or even more, Pluto lost his planet status 🌎 due to being so small. I really hope that #apple is #teampluto because if that’s why they skipped 9 I would have so much respect for them!!!
📌📌📌Ever wondered why you meet people with potential but they just don't have all of what you need to find complete happiness?
Is your head full of ideas and things that you know would be a success?
Ideally it be nice to have it all come together but I'm here to warn you... Once your walking in your purpose you can be complete and fulfilled in a relationship. Your mate has to fit the mold. They have to compliment you in every way. Don't allow what looks like it could work throw you off and you lose yourself, your dreams and most importantly miss out on your destiny trying to make a relationship work that's not meant to be! #realationshipequipment#relationships#Build#Create#Visions#Dreams#Purpose#Destiny#GetrelationshipEquipped#heartmatters#yourpurpose#lovematters#love
Talking with Grade 5 girls yesterday (with #colleenwilson about what empties our good thoughts and feelings out of our buckets. A big one is comparing ourselves. Love how #byronkatie talks about this in her new book - A mind at home with itself.
Where do you put yourself above others or hold others above you? Become aware, let it go and set yourself free.
Confession: I try on wedding dresses at thrift stores as often as possible. I'm a romantic who never had a big day. My #1 regret in life is settling for less than my dreams. I work now to do better justice to my heart needs. I am worth my needs. 💫💖💫
To be sincere, you can't find out everything about a person via questions, dates etc. Some things just remain hidden.
One prayer I made when I was still friends with my husband was the wisdom and understanding to ask the right questions and discover issues that may affect us later. That prayer for answered the next day. We began to talk a lot into his background, past and many other topics I have never bothered to ask in my previous relationships.
It was deep and revealing but I know it was God showing me some truths I had to decide about.
You need to have a place in God's arm to see what He sees.
Then I thought, “Why do people work so hard?” I saw people try to succeed and be better than other people. They do this because they are jealous. They don’t want other people to have more than they have. This is senseless. It is like trying to catch the wind. - Ecclesiastes 4:4
A simple reminder from God
What drives you, motivates you to success?🤗🤗🤗 We should evaluate our heart's intent in doing things 😊
We should let God check and balance our motives 😊
Mahala sa Lord ang laman ng puso natin ❤️❤️❤️ The question is
What drives you??
*(2)* Kata-Nya kepada mereka: "Tuaian memang banyak, tetapi pekerja sedikit. Karena itu mintalah kepada Tuan yang empunya tuaian, supaya Ia mengirimkan pekerja-pekerja untuk tuaian itu. (3) Pergilah, sesungguhnya Aku mengutus kamu seperti anak domba ke tengah-tengah serigala. (4)Janganlah membawa pundi-pundi atau bekal atau kasut, dan janganlah memberi salam kepada siapapun selama dalam perjalanan.
Ini aku ngmng pribadinya ya bukan maksud ngmngn denominasi apapun.. tp kalau perlu bertobat ya sama2 lah ya..🔥
Kemungkinan besar pekerja tuaian ada dalam greja tetapi belum tentu sebaliknya..
Bisa dilihat dari fokus, mental dan komitmennya..
Contoh dalam firman tersebut mengatakan, jangan bawa pundi2, bekal atau kasut.. Kalau fokus kita jiwa2 bukan motivasi pribadi, pasti Tuhan pelihara.. Dan ayat sebelumnya, diutusnya, ke kawanan serigala bukan kawanan domba.. Disertai juga oleh demonstrasi kuasa Tuhan (orang-orang sakit yang disembuhkan)..
Pekerja tuaian juga bangun relasi dengan pekerja yang lain hanya untuk Satu kepentingan, Surga..
STOP BLAMING YOURSELF IF YOU TRULY TRIED... Most times,I talk about you becoming the right partner and all.
And I have to say that sometimes you may even be worthy enough to have the best and yet it didn't work out.
Sometimes you may just be too good for some people. Seriously. Chill.
So you are in a relationship with this lady or man.
You call everyday.
You send romantic SMS.
You are fond of organising surprises.
You talk about your life goals.
You are sincere and honest.
You are vulnerable and open.
You do everything to make it work but you get pushed away most times.
The other time you sacrificed your time to help with a task.
Completely burnt out, and you got just a thanks. Not even an additional expression that shows the value of your help. This keeps happening. You are only remembered in such times of need.
You pray that it last.
I have been there before.
Even after receiving messages that devalued me, I still went ahead to sort it out over the phone.
I was positive and willing to go all the way to make it work.
But it just didn't work.
There are two sides it.
It's either you are currently in this kind of one sided relationship or you just came out of one and you keep blaming yourself.
Sometimes you might just be with someone who doesn't even see your value. It doesn't make you bad but gives you another chance to meet the best. I mentioned all these in my book.
If you are suffering in that relationship, why remain in it?
Scared you won't meet any better?
Sacred of your age and the pressure?
Better to be alone and at peace than be abused daily in a toxic relationship.
Stop blaming yourself about why it didn't work.
You did your best but best is still ahead for you.
It takes two to tango.
If you are willing and your partner isn't , it can't work even if you apply all you have learnt.
There comes a time when you have to realise that you deserve better.
This is for you if you know what I truly mean.
You have tried. Keep moving ahead for a better chance.
#Singles Often times we're afraid to admit that we've outgrown someone. We determine that saying someone was right for us, but isn't anymore...in some way diminishes what we did have with that person. We cling onto the times they were there for us, the things that they said, or the good times that are long gone...rather than accepting that they're not really there for us now, and their silence is screaming out like a bell. We let the opinions of others, and our need to people please, keep us in toxic relationships that are literally killing us from the inside out. And I have to ask myself...WHY? But then I remember that the answer has always been there...from the Garden of Eden, to present day society....we don't believe that God is truly good. The devil has convinced us to completely ignore the fact that it's all rooted in fear...fear that someone more suiting for us doesn't exist, fear that we'll never find someone else at all, fear that God isn't good, and that He won't truly give us His best when we let go of the fragments of lust that we've convinced ourselves somehow add up to love. So I'll ask you, today! What would you let go of today, if you truly believed that God is good? What would you step out and trust Him to do, if you stopped letting fear control you? This isn't a dress rehearsal... this is your life! Are you truly who you want to be??? #LauraPLytle#authorlife#authorquotes#miniblog#girls#ladies#allthesingleladies#guys#singlesguys#daughtersofGod#sonsofgod#bemore#knowyourworth#nosettlezone#neveronsale#trueloveprays#relationshipgoals#love vs #lust#heartmatters#identity#foundinChristalone#relationships#relationshipgoals#couplegoals#healthyrelationships#fear#faith