33, my most significant year alive so far. Easily both the worst & best.
#divorce . for the 95% of people I never told I was married. And y'know.. Tons of soul-searching commences after hitting rockbottom during an event in your life that alters you permanently. Single biggest lesson? Surrendering control. Control of outcomes, people, situations, mindset, emotions..
#kyra , who saw me at my worst, reversed roles, and took care of me when I didn't move from my bed for 2 months this year. According to the tale that your kids are going to be a reflection of yourself, I totally didn't get what I deserved with her when I got such a kind hearted, amazing kid. So I'm getting better at ILYs and hugs and sharing.. Finally understanding that a kid needs more than just food, water, and shelter.
#departed ways with some, but conversely, met so many incredible people and unlikely friends. Started appreciating having valuable females in my circle.
#adventures ! They happened when restraints, worries, fears were no longer a concern which meant being open to a new range of experiences.. and essentially being happy. I learned how to do that. Every shit event led to better things, no regrets. Last few hours of being 33, looking forward to 34. Say #hbd 🎂