I saw you suffering ,and losing, and I didn't know if there's anything that I could do to save you. I wanted to catch the sky, when you were falling, but darling I couldn't. I realized, it was YOUR BATTLE, and YOU had to fight it back, there's nothing I can do except for being there.
P.s. - I've got your back. I'm here.❤️
"Guys like you are always sorry, always too late." - Pierrot le Fou.
Somehow this quote said by Marianne got stuck in my mind after I've rewatched this Godard movie for the 4th time now. It's not that I don't fancy love or thinking is not important or necessary. Love is after all what makes us all human. But there are times and there are phases when you just wanna be a loner and you just allow the time you have to love yourself. After all the misleadings and the tendency for people who disappoint and they do it, again. There comes a time where you just stop thinking about it, you stop to feel the need to even love again, and the only thought on your mind is to just love yourself. Don't mean to sound a cliche but from the point you start experience what you can do just for you, all the time, all the possibilities, all those blank spaces you fill by new ideas and thoughts not being distracted by love, are some of the precious moments in a young adult girl's life. We live in a age of fast paced everything. Food, fashion, fast cars, fast subway rides, fast love. We came to a point where there's a tendency for dis-attachment, for non-commitment, for fooling around 1,2,3 people at the same time, and the naive notion that this could be called love. Or those who awake feelings in you with no intention to love you. It's so easy to be a coward in love nowadays. We also have those people who can't get over past lovers and leave you hanging like with no clear answer or thought. Get a grip people. What once was, it was. What it is, it is. Keep your heart open, each one of us will always have a different side to offer and new adventures to be part of. It's an age of non-exclusivity, and a place where people lost within themselves can't hold to anyone. Blessed those who just purely love with no constraints or infinite dramas. Find yourself first. Love yourself first. Then, then you can start to think about loving someone else. Listening Chek Baker - "You don't know what love is." ✨💌
"Time doesn't stop when I'm with you." 🌼
I lm grateful that I’ve gotten to a place where I’m completely okay with starting my day with a good sweat and superfood shake, and knowing I’ll end it with delicious food, good wine, and great friends. Balance is a beautiful thing.😌🙌🏻 ❤️ Celebrating Friendsgiving tonight! Do you celebrating thanksgiving with your friends too? #happysaturday
Wishing you an awesome Humpday! ❤️ I have a simple but important question for you this morning. If I were to ask you to make a list of things you love, how long would it take you to name yourself? 😕
I think in this crazy busy world we live in, sometimes it can be so easy to put ourselves last. We can find the time, energy, or money to do things for the people we love, but when it comes to our own well being and health we put it off, make excuses, or even worse: don’t feel like we’re worthy. 😔 But how can we TRULY love others or help someone if we aren’t making sure we’re taking the time to take care of our own well being, too? Think about it. •
Some of my favorite ways to practice self love are my daily workouts, eating well MOST of the time, reading my Bible, listening to podcasts that are motivating AF, (Yes, I read the Bible and sometimes I curse. That’s just me. 🤷🏼♀️) having a deep conversation with a good friend, and going for long walk to clear my head.
In the online challenge groups that I run, we take the two first things on that list above and we practice them together daily. We’re all busy women, some of us moms, some wives, some sisters, and some of us are hard working professionals. But one thing we ALL have in common is that we’ve learned that not only does it feel better to choose self love, but it actually helps serve the people around us better too. ☺️ So if you’ve been putting yourself last, you’re ready to create some super simple habits to help you change that, and would love to have a group of BA lady friends here to support you along the way, there is always room for you to join us. 🤗👯♀️ fill out the link in my bio and let me help you to get started gf! And ALWAYS remember to find time to love yourself. ❤️
I think sometimes people confuse the word hard with impossible. Is it hard to wake up early (especially when it’s cold out 😬) and get my workout in? Yes. Is it hard to choose to eat the apple I brought to work as a snack instead of the yummy food in the break room? OMG yes. Is it hard to keep myself in the right mindset if I let myself over-indulge sometimes so I don’t get completely off track? Most definitely. Of course none of these things are easy. But if you continue to think of hard tasks as impossible, chances are they will feel impossible. Instead, try to think of them as necessary tasks in accomplishing your goals. Do a little algebra and turn that negative into a positive! (I’m no good at math, I’m not even sure if that made sense. 😂) But really, your mind is a powerful thing. Fill it with the right thoughts/attitudes/ideas and there’s no telling where you can go. ❤️ •
And if you’re ready to challenge the “impossible” I’m always here and ready to chat about those important goals of yours. ❤️📱💌 message me or fill out the #linkinbio 🤗 P.S. Enrollment for the December challenge group, appropriately named Mistletoned 💪🏻😏🎅🏻🎄, is now officially open. 🤗❤️