“Misao’s really mad at us.”
mm some oc crossover with Nia c;
Have Dan and Hammy become the protagonists in the game Misao.
Questions from the ask box will be answered tomorrow (hopefully)
Which tasks do you keep incomplete? Which have you started, but never really worked on? What is almost finished... for months or even years? What is laying out there, being skipped and moved out of the way every now and then? Which reminders keep hanging on at your refrigerator, to-do lists and apps?
Make an inventory of all your unfinished business: take note of every single thing waiting there for your action of any kind - in your work life and personal life. How many open loops are there?
Now, I'd like you to become aware that every task you start but don’t finish keeps lingering in your mind. You just keep coming up with random bugging thoughts about it.
The issue mentioned here has a name in psychology - the "Zeigarnik effect": the tendency to remember objectives that were once pursued and left incomplete more easily than finished tasks.
The weight of layered incomplete tasks has a very distracting effect. It creates a feeling of "so many things to do" and leaves you overwhelmed, nervous, anxious, restless.
Now, go back to your list and take a look once more: is there anything on this list that is so important you will definitely commit to and complete it within a week? For the rest of the list, give it a definite closure: shred it, burn it, throw it in trash bin... Put yourself at ease, get rid of the negative emotions and feel relieved after doing this.
Koje zadatke uporno ne završavaš? Šta si sve započeo i tu se zaustavio? Šta je to što večito čeka "bolje dane"? Šta je mesecima ili čak godinama "skoro gotovo"? Šta je to što stalno sklanjaš s puta sa mesta na mesto? Na šta te sve podsećaju silni šareni lepljivi papirići, to-do liste i aplikacije... a ti se praviš da ne vidiš?
Pretresi sve svoje neobavljene zadatke: napravi listu bukvalno svih onih stvari koje čekaju da nešto uradiš sa njima, na poslu ili u privatnom životu! Koliko je takvih otvorenih stavki?
A sad želim da ti skrenem pažnju da svaki zadatak koji započneš a ne ispuniš, ostaje da "visi" u tvom umu... i povremeno ti okupira misli, krade energiju. [nastavak] 👇