As much as we want to continue things the same way we have for the last.. I don't know, 10 or 15 years? It just won't happen. People change. That include friends, family and relatives.
So we do all we can to preserve the tradition, hoping people to treasure the memories. But you see, even memories fade. My grandma has alzheimer. Is there any reason on why we don't celebrate life?
PS: Omg today is the last day of Ramadan.. Have a festive Eid tomorrow! Mohon maaf lahir dan batin :)