I had my last drink on October 9, 2016. I’ve been sober for 13 months, and let me tell you — that is something that I never thought possible for myself. I never imagined I would or could give up alcohol entirely, and I never would have had I stayed in denial and kept refusing to see how much it was damaging me.
For me, drinking had become a pretty big problem in my life, and as much as I was a conscious, aware person and very focused on health, I had this other side to me that was abusing alcohol, and it was only getting worse. I felt tremendous amounts guilt and shame after I drank, which would leave me in a very low vibrational state, full of anxiety. Because I felt so down, I turned to the only way I knew I could escape those feelings, which was to drink more, yet again. I was stuck in a repetitive cycle, and really the main thing that was keeping me down in the first place was the alcohol.
Now, you may be reading this and thinking you don’t have a problem with alcohol and can’t learn from my story, or maybe you relate to it more than you’d like to admit. Whatever your story with alcohol is, if you would like to change something about it, then this is for you. Often when I tell people I don’t drink they are shocked. I don’t always explain why I’ve stopped, but nevertheless people often say they wish they could stop, too It seems many people, regardless of if they like alcohol or have a problem with it, feel they can’t live without it, particularly in social settings where they’re expected to meet new people.
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Je suis control freak... C'est quoi ⁉️🔎
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