When the fear of failure takes hold of your shoulders and presses down so heavy you give in, you back down, you second guess and you decide that staying where you are, not daring to do things, not getting help from people to get you further, is easier than taking the leap you are so drawn to take, thats when you are functioning not living.
What a ride I have been on. The ride of staying small through my own decisions and considerations and learnings. It is so interesting that when we really stop and listen and really put the hand up to the fear and let it halt like a horse realising its defeated in the charge, that we really wake up and feel strong.
Not just interesting to me now. It's a power. It was someone saying to my face 'be brave' that I listened. Was like a warm slap. I woke up. I now make every single fear the drive to do better. Those butterflies. Those nauseating gut holds, those parts of you that are always saying no, they are there to keep you safe, they are now my muscle and motivation.
A life of believing in the fears to hold you back, is a life sitting in that chair. Staying there. Watching everyone leaping and landing on their feet.
Your yearning beats the drum inside though. It keeps beating so hard you get pissed at it. You in that chair getting bitter about all those that get success and you can't. Its debilitating. But they are not at fault. They just decided.
Imagine if you decided that the yearning is the good guy and the fear was the dude that is just crazy arse sometimes...listen to it when we need to live (stay alive) but wink at it and walk on when we REALLY want to live. When it is being petty about something.
Imagine if you trusted that what you put in and focus on is what you get.
Imagine if you decided that to move forward you actually need to take the steps to get there and you are THERE. Because you can't not be there if that was where you are heading right?
No more dreaming. No more thinking you are not deserving. YOU can do anything.
Don't look back. Life isn't going that way.
Shonah B xx
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Wouldn't it be great to create that vibe 'Magic' in that space so that no real hard work needs to be done by you trying to lure them in?
On that first Open, It's all there ready and decisions are made emotionally without you saying a word! .
What if the sale was directed by them not you? .
But you created something great and put that energy out there that is theirs to grab hold of. .
You get to feel amazing by giving as well as receiving. .
Doesn't that feel so much better? I think so.
You get what you focus on. Either way.