Seseorang yang datang mencintaimu karna 1 unsur/sebab juga akan pergi dengan 1 unsur/sebab.
Jangan salahkan dia,salahkanlah dirimu yang tak mampu menjadi sesuai dengan ekspektasinya terhadapmu.
Diam,Tenang dan resapilah serta pahamilah sejauh mana pemahamanmu tentang karakteristik cinta sejati itu.
"She doesn't care what's in front of her as long as she knows who's beside her!" 💯
Understand that nothing I've accomplished over the past 10 years would have been possible without this man! What you never see is that he is the driving force beside me!
He is the one person I know rides for me 💯 and will never switch sides for opportunity. He's got my back whether I'm in or outside the room. He's the person who will pray with me daily, remind me to eat when I'm fully focused on a project, make me get rest when he sees im stressed, check me when I need to be checked, push me to my limits when im ready to quit, help me dream bigger than I ever imagined, my strength when i am weak, fierce protector of his family, sees my enemies before me, loves me unconditionally, investing in my dreams mentally, spiritually and financially...asking for nothing but love, loyalty and respect in return! A real man whose sole belief is family comes first...no exceptions!
It is through the lessons his love teaches me daily that I am able to pour into you constantly. While I'm holding you accountable, he's doing the same for me too! ...so when you see me just know my team consists solely of me and my hubby...A POWERFUL FORCE TO BE RECKONED WITH! 👊
Before i could learn to love and appreciate a good man like this in my life...i first had to learn to love and appreciate myself! Today is not a special day but everyday is special to me when he's in it...no reason necessary to celebrate my baby! 💑 #BlackLove#BlackMarriage#RelationshipGoals#TheRosses#ButGod ☝️ @InspiredbyThe Rosses
Sometimes we need to sit down and examine ourselves. The lot of us hate when someone is wasting our time, but when the shoe is on the other foot we don't really consider the other person. We want what we want, even when it's momentary.
Some us literally know something isn't going to get anywhere, especially if we aren't doing any real investing. Your actions convey if you're trying make something happen. You can say it until you're blue in the face, but until the actions match the words you're doing nothing more just selling dreams.
People are tired of that. You would think that if someone was like that then he/she would deal with another person that's identical. So when someone says let's see what happens, essentially it's as if they're saying let's experiment with your time and emotions.
Who wants their time and emotions experimented with? Raise your hand.
At this point if someone isn't clear with what they want from you and it's not matching what you want, or they aren't taking/making legitimate steps to convey what they're saying is true then your time IS being wasting.
Some ppl want attention and to be entertained. That's it. Eventually they'll find someone worth investing in. Sadly it isn't you. On the bright side there's someone out there for you that will invest.
Don't think God is going to present any ole person that you will just have accept. You wake up in the morning and have to thank God that AT LEAST you're with someone that isn't wasting time . Nah God isn't gonna play you like that.
He won't necessarily give you the desires of YOUR heart. No. Instead it'll be HIS desires placed in YOUR heart. He wants the best for although you might not see it. So when will enough be enough when it comes to having you time wasted? You have to decide that for yourself. Otherwise ppl will come and go. Taking from you but never giving. Taking advantage and taken you for granted, but showing any real graditude. Never really reciprocating nothing, but looking at you sideways for wanting more than what's given, if anything is given at all.