Most people who attract unavailable relationships are indeed unconsciously unavailable. Many of them have a fear of never finding real love. They have negative thoughts about their potential to find someone who will really love and accept the real them. They are so insecure about their weaknesses and past failures that they unconsciously believe no one will ever love their truth. They are ashamed of their hidden faults and fear rejection when their weaknesses are discovered. These people often want a relationship, but they are afraid of true intimacy.
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Sometimes, these fears even lead people to feel that an unavailable relationship works perfectly. They don’t want to be smothered. They enjoy partners who are distant and give appropriate space. They are comfortable in long-distance relationships and prefer partners who travel a lot. They may even prefer partners who are in other committed relationships. Maybe you’ve wondered why some people become involved with a partner who is married. These people may unconsciously prefer that kind of situation because the detachment helps to ease their fear of being smothered or losing themselves to a relationship. Some women are attracted to married men because of the safety of never really having anything to lose. The fear of losing another person you love or even losing yourself will lead you to settle for an unavailable relationship. You are settling, because deep down inside you are trying to protect yourself. You are protecting yourself from intimacy. You are afraid to unveil your truth, and this part of your relationship has nothing to do with your partner. The answer to this is...read more in my new book "You Are Enough." Click this link to pre-order your exclusive copy of "You Are Enough" click > http://bit.ly/YouAreEnoughBook #youareenoughbook#AddictedToPainBook#forgive#transition#peace#book#toxicrelationships#christianlove#realloveexist#addictedtopain#life#thankful#positivethinking#inspirational#booksells#bookseller#author#authorsofinstagram#authorlife#blessed#reading#abuse#abusiverelationship
True love doesn't happen right away; it's an ever-growing process. It develops after you've gone through many ups and downs, when you've suffered together, cried together, laughed together. I love my husband very much. I knew it was real true love because I felt like I could be myself around that person. Your true, true innermost authentic self, the stuff you don't let anyone else see, if you can be that way with that person, I think that that's real love.
Mis novios eternos. (Mi güero y mi morenaza)😍😍 Dios ha sido tan generoso con mis hermanos y conmigo por darnos a unos papás ejemplares, congruentes, sin apariencias, "agarrando el toro por los cuernos" cuando hay dificultad, siendo positivos siempre, disfrutando la vida en todo momento y confiando siempre en Dios....Somos tan afortunados... los amo 😍💙😘😘
Esta foto tiene 45 años... eran novios mis papás, mi Mamá de 15 años, mi Papá de 18
Last post really hit a nerve, i hope to anyone that has felt the pain that false love has shown you, you bounced right back 💪💯. Remember your strength and independence, stay true to you always no matter who judges or hates and one day that love you've been desiring will present itself. Ready and willing to put in the time and effort to show that those past lessons who hurt you did not see the true value you bring not only physically but emotionally more. Pure happiness, true unconditional love that's what we all can offer someone and that someone will be very special. Stay straight up, keep it 💯 and Be You !
🗣Congrats to the beautiful couple Dan and Mal! It was Amazing to witness this and I am so happy for my friend Dan that he has found his Queen ,Mal. Love you both! Congrats ❤️💍👰🏽🤵🏾 #realloveexist#newlyengaged