CAPTION 🔽 #Repost @mindfulmft with @repostapp (( quote by @adrianmichaelgreen ))
This is so important. So often we forget the sensitivity and emotion that men have. Although it's changing, we are a part of a culture that really hasn't created a whole lot of security for men to share their emotions and feelings.
Through my work, one of the things that has really stood out is how much men so desperately want to be allowed to feel. They want their emotion to be heard and understood...for it to be embraced and not shamed.
When a man has the courage to step towards his vulnerability, we need to submit to it. We need to protect his heart and do our best to understand. If he lets you in...be there. Help change the narrative that shames him for feeling, and create a new one that helps him realize that his emotions are safe with you.
I was filming with @vice yesterday around the topic of women and anger. During our conversation we spoke about how women are so often judged for expressing anger while men are judged for expressing vulnerability. We need to start to shift towards all of us just being human. We are ALL allowed to be human. We are allowed to have and express our feelings. Women aren't crazy for having anger and men aren't weak for having emotion. Let's stop shaming people for being human and start shifting towards acceptance and understanding. #mindfulmft#poetrycommunity#relationships#igromantics#relationshipquotes#lovequotes#truelovequotes#love#igpoets#igwriting#quotes#wordstoliveby#wordsofwisdom#igpoets
"Create a life that is not dependent on a partner. Have an identity outside your relationship. Be capable of amusing yourself. Only YOU can make yourself whole. Don't project your needs onto your partner and don't allow yourself to be swallowed by him or the other way around. Don't swallow him. Keep on learning new things, Invest in yourself, have a hobby, define your identity." <3
I bet my hubby will do,he never liked to go supermarket,but today morning he had opened the last can of food for the cat,he already texted me and said,we need to go supermarket to buy cat food, I'll be arrived home at 3,so u had to get ready then jumped up to car while I arrived.
CREDIT from fb post.
It is time to start the process. Ask God to create in you a new heart and renew a right spirit. A heart of forgiveness, a heart of love.
Regardless, if the person who hurt you doesn't apologize. You have to let the offense go and be free. Free to love. Free to have love again. Free to have someone accept and love you the way love was intended to be. 💜
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It can be about the small things, such as not texting back or taking too long to pick up their call. When you argue, it quickly escalates to be something bigger. The way you two fight is not healthy either. Both of you are screaming and yelling about what you want, without really listening to each other. Good communication is key, and fighting is not the way you would want to communicate with you partner.