You called fat ugly. You said that the way her belly fat jiggled when she ran was disgusting. You (maybe unknowingly, maybe not) made fun of her thighs, her double chin, her heavy arms.
She obsessed over her body weight. She looked at herself in the mirror ten times but not once did she find that reflection staring back at her pretty. If butt-fat is sexy, why isn't belly-fat? She felt betrayed by her own sources of energy and hence vowed to stop eating. She said, "Mom! I'm dieting today onwards." with such a bright smile on her face that no one got to know how easily the Anorexia parasite is taking over her brain. She left eating. She lost weight. Initially applauded by her friends and family, she got further encouraged to carry on the 'dieting' to the extent that even after having just a morsel of food, she'd forcefully vomit it out in the commode.
She looked like a disaster. Worrysome glances were thrown at her paper-thin waistline as she walked the streets. All she could think was - "Fat is ugly. I dont want to be fat." These thoughts took over her. Controlled her. Drove her mad day and night.
Finally, you won. Yes you, who called fat ugly. People like you have spoiled teenagers' lives. And you post #stopbodyshaming on your social media (oh, the irony). You drove her to lethargy and depression. Yes, you. You, my dear, won. And she lost.//🍃
Only Zumba battle can bring so much happiness... 😍💖 A college girl to A Doctor, a single mother or house wife to a high profile working lady. A shy non-dancer to a fitness model or dancer. THERE IS NO DIFFERENCE IN A ZUMBA CLASS. WE ALL ARE ONE!! 💝
First, You Stop judging yourself then never allow anyone to lebel you how they want. 😎
Yes! You are Fat and healthy.
You are skinny and strong.
You are dusky and gorgeous.
You are above 50 full of life.
You are beyond what other people think of you. ❤️
I was reading articles about body shaming and I thought I should share my own experience on this topic. I’ve always had bigger hips growing up and my chinese side would always make comments about how a flatter back side would be prettier. I remember feeling very bad and started to diet at the tender age of 10, I stopped eating meat and only ate veggies for a few years in order to lose weight. (I’ve learned that this is not a healthy way to diet esp for a growing child after taking classes on this topic in college. It was obviously a bad thing to do, but I didn’t care about destroying my health in order to be “beautiful” for someone else that shouldn’t matter) My mom had no clue I was doing this, and I became anemic from this improper way of dieting. My mom also didn’t want me to dress up or wear makeup when I lived at home and would constantly put me down when I wore something cuter. She would say things like you look like a hooker no joke. I would seriously have to wear the clothes I wanted to wear under a thicker jacket and change out of it in my car. My mom would tell me how I was not pretty and how my boobs made me look fat blah blah blah. I’m a bit older now and I think being healthy is the most important thing. Whenever someone tells me I’m too skinny or too fat, I don’t even want to respond and as long as I know I’m healthy that’s all that matters. (BMI, blood tests and etc) I’ve also come to realize that (after traveling so much) there’s a different set of beauty standard in every society and culture, so you will never please everyone. Therefore, I don’t even try and I just do what is healthy and best for my body. You’ll never be happy about yourself if you don’t accept your own self. Enough of rambling. #loveyourself#stopbodyshaming#beautyinspiration#stayfit#eatclean#beautycomesinallsizes
SWIPE !! #
are y’all happy now? youve body shammed her sm that now she’s doing it to herself. if your going to body shame someone then do it to me bc these beautiful girls ( @annieleblanc @kenzieziegler @ardenmartino @mia.d05 @sydnastical @dylanconrique @mads.lewis @rileylewisofficial ) #stopbodyshaming
On top of my husband being out of commission for almost a week, my poor baby Luci has been sick all day as well. Apparently she ate a stuffed animal and has been puking it up all day(sorry for the TMI). Hoping she gets better soon or I’ll be taking her & and daddy to the doctor. It’s been one tough week!
Day 3 of 80 done... although survived might be more accurate. That was an unbelievable cardio and ab workout. I paused and modified to get through it. •
Today started off super rough with my head not in the right place. But today ended with a call with some of my fellow coaches who are so freaking motivating and inspiring it’s hard to even explain and a workout that was frustrating at times but left me feeling sweaty and full of endorphins. Tough days get better. Keep pushing through. •
I’ve always loved this saying, but I can’t think of who said it at the moment. “I know God won’t give me anything I can’t handle, I just wish he didn’t trust me so much” ** if you know who that quote is from please share**
Have you been looking for something RIGHT but in all the WRONG places?
Hi! My name is Jes Lyn! I’m a mom to a 1 year old who just learned to walk this week, a step mom to two beautiful little girls, and a fur mom of THREE!
I am a full time health + wellness coach, part time personal trainer + group fitness instructor! I lead a team of incredibly strong women who push me to be better every day.
Before I found myself HERE I was all sorts of lost. I’m talking a party life with substance abuse, debt, and a really unhealthy relationship with food.
I remember feeling like I’d never get out of the hole I was in but always faking a smile so others wouldn’t see how lost I was.
It took six months of being extremely sick and anxiety ridden to realize that my body was more than just what appeared on the outside!
When I was introduced to this lifestyle I never imagined it would lead me to the places I’ve travelled, the incredible women I’ve met along the way, and where I stand today.
I joined because I wanted women to know that there is a way out, there is a solution to your struggles, and that a little belief goes a very long way. I do this because I still want that and so much more for everyone out there who feels how I felt.
This weekend I’ll be hosting a LIVE coach preview with the lady who changed my life + a few other ladies who have helped me along the way! I’d love for you to join us, hear our stories, and see if this could be the answer you’ve been looking for.
There is never any obligation, just an opportunity to become friends and hopefully chase our dreams together!
If you’d like me to add you, please comment your email below or message me!
I can’t wait to chat with you + hear your story!
Thank you guys for giving this loser 5k! When I first made this page, I never expected it to get to where it is now. Im so grateful for all of you, everyone who sends me encouraging messages, THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH! I LOVE YOU ALL 😭😭💞💞💞
I am still in the process of loving and accepting my body the way it is and all the support Ive been getting means the world to me. I never thought I'd post half of the pictures I've been posting here, in truth I am still very afraid of posting pictures that show parts of my body that I'm insecure about. I am still learning, still growing. But slow progress is better than none. Keep loving and taking care of yourself no matter how slow. I want you guys to know, Im rooting for you. 💞🍒
Literally what our life has looked like for the past 6 days. My husband hurt his back pretty bad at work and we have been trying everything to relive his pain. We’ve seen the chiropractor a bunch of times, he got an message today, he’s tried stretching & icing. He’s gotten better but still not 100%. Have any of had lower back pain? And what did your do to get rid of it?
Today I am choosing to have an amazing day! Even if I cried leaving the house because Sierra gave me the best puppy dogs eyes of all time😭🐶 #stayathomedogmom life can’t come soon enough!
We have a lot of choices in life and they will either lead us towards the path of our dreams or towards the dreams of others. I want you to make choices everyday that allow you to go down the path towards your dreams. You deserve it, you are worth it and life is too damn short!
Leave a ♥️ in the comments if you feel me!
Es ist schade, dass es so viele wunderschöne Menschen gibt, die denken, dass sie genau das nicht wären.
Jeder ist so wie er ist einzigartig und perfekt. Du bist nicht besser, weil du zum Beispiel ne kleinere Konfektionsgröße hast oder weil auf deinen Klamotten ne beschissene Möwe ist 🤷🏼♀️ Man sollte die Menschen nicht mehr nach ihrem Äußeren beurteilen und abstempeln. Lass jeden so sein wie er möchte, auch wenn du dich zum Beispiel nicht so anziehen würdest. Bleib bei dir selbst und mach andere nicht schlecht weil sie vielleicht nicht so aussehen wie du es gerne hättest oder weil sie vielleicht anders sind als du. Auch dumme Sprüche zu bringen, kann verletzen und viel innerlich kaputt machen. Also bevor du was sagst, denk nach ☝🏼Jeder soll so leben und rumlaufen wie er möchte und niemand hat das Recht darüber zu urteilen. Egal was andere sagen, höre auf dich und dein Herz. Mach das was du für richtig hältst und gehe deinen Weg. Lass dich nicht runterziehen, denn du bist schön auf deine Weise. ❤️✨
Dieses Oberflächliche sollte endlich aufhören 💩
Heyyyy naaaaa ihr Täubchen, wie versprochen, habe ich es gestern Nacht doch noch geschafft mein Outfit zu fotografieren 😼 und mein Grübchen-Mußauge ist auch wieder voll am Start aber mein Outfit war on point ich sags euch. Ich fand mich selbst mal wieder sehr scharf 😂🔥ich war gestern Abend nämlich zusammen mit zahlreichen anderen Täubchen beim Get together von @wundercurves.de und es war ganz wunderbar! Auch hier noch einmal vielen Dank für den schönen Abend! ❤️ die Foto Credits gehen hier an die süße @thetiffanyla von @wundercurves.de und an den lieben Claus von @extra_inches_plussizeblog ❤️
I want to talk about something serious for a moment cause it really bothers me. I get a lot of negative messages and most of them I can handle but recently I received a message from an account that clearly wasn't real, it's name was just a serious of numbers with no posts, no profile pic and no followers/following. They sent me about four messages just calling me things like "slut" and "faggot", first things first, yes I do like boys and I like girls and everything in between but that is no reason to call me names/treat me differently. It shouldn't matter who a person loves or is attracted too. In regards to being called a slut, yes I post nudes occasionally but they are not sexual pics and were never intended to be sexual. Also if I'm talking to someone in a romantic/sexual way they are the only person I'm talking to in that way. However who or how many people someone chooses to sleep with or talk to in that way us their own business and as long as it's not hurting anyone there is no reason in bringing it up with them. We need to stop slut shaming, the exact same way we need to stop weight shaming and shaming people in general. Nobody is perfect and therefore nobody has the right to judge another person on any of their life choices unless it's causing someone unwanted pain.
BASICALLY, I can post whatever I like and anyone who has a problem with it doesn't have to look. Anyone who feels the need to insult or criticise me in a non-constructive sense will be blocked, possibly reported depending on the severity. I'm comfortable with myself and I choose what I do with my body and my heart, no one else gets too.