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Cuando sabes quién eres, no necesitas intermediarios, te aprecias y actúas con seguridad aunque después puede que decidas ser o hacer otra cosa. Sólo Eres lo que se siente como "Tú" en este momento y eso es suficiente. -4462ht
#Being#BeYourBest#Soul#4462ht#projections#validation#selfworth Pic vía @iamkatebull
Plexus and #Cleveland Clinic?? 😱😱😱 #validation 💥CHECK THIS OUT💥
What if one of the TOP #medical facilities in the world evaluated Plexus? ✔✔Well, it DID!! A top #Nutritionist from the Cleveland Clinic, evaluated Plexus products being taken by a patient being treated for #CELIAC DISEASE. Here is the scoop... #US News & #World Report ranks the Cleveland Clinic #Hospital and the extensions of Cleveland Clinic as the #1 Hospital & Care Center in the U.S. A patient treated for Celiac #Disease went for a very thorough Nutrition Review with one of their top Nutritionists.
A thorough evaluation was done of ALL the ingredients of the PLEXUS X FACTOR (multivitamin). The Result? Very highly complimented and was even encouraged to take 2 per day! 💪🏻💪🏻 PLEXUS SLIM was evaluated. The result? Very high marks for what it does for normalizing glucose levels in the gut and reducing #inflammation in the intestinal tract. This top Nutritionist said people do not realize how inflammation wears on the body. 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 PROBIO5 was evaluated. The result? It was suggested that THIS #probiotic be taken over any of the over-the-counter probiotics. 😳😳👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻In fact, this Nutritionist was so impressed with how Plexus managed to formulate All #Natural & #Gluten Free #products to address many gastro and gut issues. It was stated that these products would be VERY BENEFICIAL in managing autoimmune disease!
What creates inflammation? A variety of core issues- #sugar is culprit, by and large, more than we realize which fluctuates #insulin and rapidly feeds yeast and acid levels & another aide to leaky gut syndrome. Inflammation is terrible. Think gasoline on a fire to #autoimmune disorders.
Plexus is nailing it!
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A list of things that help me feel valid (add on to this list in the comments if you wish):
1. @penny_underbust and @thomassanders video intros
2. @raindovemodel just in general and the way they defy gender 'rules'
3. My absolute best friend that runs this account with me
4. When people say 'people with periods' instead of 'women with periods'
5. Open talk about sexualities
Love. What is this Self-love I used to talk about?
I expressed feelings of adoration= undercover request for affirmation
I offered support for otherd and access to my stuff = undercover request for validation
I focused on how they did ME wrong = undercover trying to get others to do my healing work
Love is all that there is. Where I think that there is no Love (insert Fear, Anger, Resentment), there is only me cutting myself off from Love's natural , abundant flow.
When I have said Self-love in the past, I was undercover wanting to cut myself off from being in the full flow and experience of Love.
I AM LOVE. And so are you.
There is a strong impulse for us to trade one dependency for another, gripping it with all our might, and feeling some sort of relief at having let go of the former. Be it another human, alcohol, meditation, food, exercise, sex, love, coffee, thrills, money, social media, work...the list stretches on without ending. But if you look gently behind the desire to attach to someone or something, you will find the hole you are trying to fill and simultaneously, trying to avoid.
What if there was nothing you needed to save you, nothing you required to validate you and bring you ease? As you grow in consciousness you get more and more glimpses of the power and majesty that reside in your being, to move you from your attachments and into the flow of the universe. | Jenny Alfia
My husband has three siblings. Whenever he talks about his childhood or what he remembers, they all chime in and tell him he’s wrong. It doesn’t matter what he says; he’s simply wrong. They insist he doesn’t know what he’s talking about or that his perception is unrealistic. They tell him he was too young to remember or that he’s forgotten the REAL facts. It drives me INSANE! I remember my childhood vividly. My sister and I are lucky in that we have parallel memories. We are only 16 months apart in age and that has a lot to do with our sharing similar history of our lives. My husband is the baby of four. His oldest sibling is SIX years older than him. How in the world could their memories be the same? It’s easy to assume just because everything was one way for you in the home that it mimicked the same for the other. I love the NBC show @nbcthisisus because it tells a story of three adults, all born on the same day, who have completely different childhood memories and personalities. A couple weeks ago in the episode when they were in family therapy, a lightbulb went off for my husband. He was validated for the first time. His childhood and memories are solely HIS. The fact that his siblings don’t recall it the same way or can’t understand or remember it the way Marc does doesn’t mean he’s delusional. My daughters are five years apart. I bet if I asked them about one particular event they’d remember it differently. So what. If one felt alone or sad or left out and the other felt included and happy at the exact same time in their lives would it mean one of them was wrong? I’ll answer that.... NO! How can someone tell YOU how YOU feel or felt? They can’t. As a mom I reflect a lot! I know that Mindy and Hadley do not always agree on how something happened. And that’s okay. No one should take the liberty to tell someone they’re remembering something “wrong” or that they indeed “didn’t feel” a certain way. Clarity and perspective are not the same for everyone. It’s almost impossible to assume otherwise. We have to support each other and maybe instead of saying, “No, that isn’t at all what happened”, you could say, “Wow, I saw it differently”.
When do you feel the most VALIDATED?
Is it when you hit a specific number on the scale? Is it the amount of money in your bank account? Is it when someone gives you a compliment?
If you said yes to a few of these items, I want you to notice that everything I just listed, is an external source of Validation. You’re relying on someone or something else to tell you your personal worth ☹️ •
What if those items never came about? What if you never hit that number on the scale? What if you never reached that certain number in your bank account? What if no one ever gave you a compliment? You would never feel worthy.....
Validation should come from within; from things YOU have control over. For example: I’m validated by productivity. I create how productive I am throughout my day. I’m validated by peace of mind. I create the environment in my own head to feel this. I’m validated by helping others and seeing the smile brightly lit on their face. I control the effort I put into this to make it happen.
Do you see where I’m getting at here? The things I can control and that are important to me are what validates me as a person; what brings forth my own worth.
The next time you’re journaling, I want you to answer this prompt. And if you don’t journal, I want you to take out a sheet of paper and just write down your thoughts. Let the pen just flow on the paper and see what comes about.
If a lot of your validation comes from external sources, it’s ok darling - nothing is wrong with you. It just means you have room for growth ❤️
GM! If your anything like me and have struggled with relationships (friends, family, significant other, etc) PLEASE watch this video. I know IG is a place where people come, to NOT be transparent in who they really are BUT the great part is NO one has to know that you clicked on (full link in bio) and watched the full video. That means you can keep whatever image you want to portray to the world but still get this message.
As for me, I am RIGHT NOW laying in the guest room of my family Jeff and Kim Matthews house and didn’t sleep half the night because I was thinking about “why” certain relationships flourish and others don’t in my life. Then, like I do every morning, I DID NOT open social media. I went to find something positive to listen to and was led to this video. All I can say now is THANK YOU GOD for validation❤️ and THANK GOD for placing these two in my life. I know that his word says that “two are better than one” but I’m going to go with “THREE are better than one” because the three of us take care (support, push, argue and most importantly LOVE) each other like no other. #fulllinkinmybio 👆 #relationshipgoals#thankful#thankgod#validation#purpose#godsplan#happysunday
Some people can handle the impacts of social media. I know i can't and made changes accordingly that have made my mental health game so much stronger.
Don't let yourself get caught up in feeds spending hours of your time feeling inferior to other people's perfect lives as they are portrayed on social media.
Stop the selfie obsession. Do people really want to see you or do you just want to see yourself. Why do you need that validation? If someone really wants to see your photo, they can ask. You can still take selfies, but you don't need to post them (or at least not all of them). I don't put photos up on Facebook anymore and just keep all my photos on Dropbox so that I have things to show people and talk about when I meet them in person instead.
Stop getting obsessed with likes. Every time we get a like we get a surge of dopamine. This is not the best way to get a dopamine surge and validation. It makes us rely on wanting to see who likes what we do. I personally like posting things and just not checking it, but I turn off my notifications for likes where I can.
Clean your feed- unfollow people. If you want to know about someone's life ask them in person or just go to their profile.
Turn your chat off. Don't talk to people just because you're bored to kill time or you'll use it as a way to cope everytime you are bored or stressed. Limit the amount of conversation time you have and be aware of it.
Facebook is a great tool to network but you don't need to invest in everyone or see what they all do. Know who on your Facebook is a network and who is a friend.
If you are going to follow people, follow people who motivate and inspire you to be better and do better (like myself for Gary Vaynerchuk for example). Learn more at https://mentalhack.wixsite.com/thementalhack