One of the greatest things I did for myself was believing in me! It changed my whole life around. I use to value myself off of how others saw me and what others thought I could do, and it completely destroyed my self-esteem and crippled my potential. I wouldn't try new things because people around me said that it wasn't for me. I use to not think I was pretty because others would tell me that I would dumb myself down because that's how others say me. I was living my life off of the expectations and thoughts of others, and it fucking sucked! It gave me crazy axneity and I constantly over thought every move I made.
And then one day I was like fuck it!!!!! I swear living that lifestyle is exhausting as hell!!! And what's the point of making everyone around me happy if I'm miserable?
The second I started to believe I could achieve anything, a shift happened. I started to see myself in a whole new light! My thoughts began to calm, things that seemed impossible were now in my reach. I started talking to new people, going out more, and doing things I only dreamt of! And the more I started to appreciate myself and know my worth, the more others followed suit.
So boys and girls, if someone around you is saying that you can't do something that you know in your heart you can, or something you just want to try, say fuck it and go out and do it anyway! If not for anyone for yourself! Cause I'm telling you, living your life based on others expectations of you is no way to life at all. That shit fucks with your heard and heart. ☄💓✴
📸 by @morro_photography