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When You Complain

When you complain, no one wants to help you.
 If you spend your time focusing on the things that are are not right with your life, or are difficult, then that is what you will project to people. You don’t become a source of inspiration or hope for them, you become a source of destruction.
 Try a negativity fast. For 30 days you are not allowed to say or think anything negative about yourself.
 #stress2strength

http://www.drjohnaking.com/ptsd-recovery/when-you-complain/

#dealwithit #dealwithitbook #drjohnaking
#complexptsd #poetry #poetryofinstagram #romantic #ptsdinspirational #ptsdisadailybattle
When You Complain When you complain, no one wants to help you. If you spend your time focusing on the things that are are not right with your life, or are difficult, then that is what you will project to people. You don’t become a source of inspiration or hope for them, you become a source of destruction. Try a negativity fast. For 30 days you are not allowed to say or think anything negative about yourself. #stress2strength  http://www.drjohnaking.com/ptsd-recovery/when-you-complain/ #dealwithit  #dealwithitbook  #drjohnaking  #complexptsd  #poetry  #poetryofinstagram  #romantic  #ptsdinspirational  #ptsdisadailybattle 
it is not over

One of the biggest issues faced by those that have experienced trauma of an extreme nature is a sense that the life they feel they never lived, is over, its done, its finished, stolen and gone for ever.
 That is simple not the case, that is a choice.
 You have the power to choose how your story ends.

http://www.drjohnaking.com/ptsd-recovery/my-story-is-not-over/  #poet #drjohnaking #dealwithitbook #dealwithit
#ptsdsurvivor #poetry #sexualabuse #SpokenWordPoetry #ptsdawarenes #cptsdrecovery
it is not over One of the biggest issues faced by those that have experienced trauma of an extreme nature is a sense that the life they feel they never lived, is over, its done, its finished, stolen and gone for ever. That is simple not the case, that is a choice. You have the power to choose how your story ends. http://www.drjohnaking.com/ptsd-recovery/my-story-is-not-over/ #poet  #drjohnaking  #dealwithitbook  #dealwithit  #ptsdsurvivor  #poetry  #sexualabuse  #SpokenWordPoetry  #ptsdawarenes  #cptsdrecovery 
Give Them A Voice – Our Strategy

Our Strategy is simple effective and proven:  Information
 Revelation
 Application
 Transformation

http://www.drjohnaking.com/the-voice/give-voice-strategy/

#dealwithit #dealwithitbook #drjohnaking
#ptsdwife #noworkingtitle #americanpoet #romanticpoetry #ptsdinspirational #poetryquotes #streetpoetry
Good Ideas

Don’t be afraid to do something you are not “qualified” to do. Amateurs built the ark, professionals built the Titanic.
 It’s ok to be just where I am in this journey.
 Occasionally, a good idea comes to me first. Usually, they only come after I have tried a lot of bad ideas.
 #stress2strength

http://www.drjohnaking.com/ptsd-recovery/good-ideas/

#dealwithit #dealwithitbook #drjohnaking
#ptsdsupport #myptsd #noworkingtitle #ptsdisadailybattle #poetryquote #ptsdinspirational
Good Ideas Don’t be afraid to do something you are not “qualified” to do. Amateurs built the ark, professionals built the Titanic. It’s ok to be just where I am in this journey. Occasionally, a good idea comes to me first. Usually, they only come after I have tried a lot of bad ideas. #stress2strength  http://www.drjohnaking.com/ptsd-recovery/good-ideas/ #dealwithit  #dealwithitbook  #drjohnaking  #ptsdsupport  #myptsd  #noworkingtitle  #ptsdisadailybattle  #poetryquote  #ptsdinspirational 
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The adventure

Standing there, holding each other as close as our own skin.
 We were looking at our future, not sure what it held.
 It was large and full of equal parts danger and adventure and we wanted it all.

http://www.drjohnaking.com/poetry-and-art/the-adventure/

#dealwithit #poet #drjohnaking #dealwithitbook
#ptsdsupport #myptsd #PTSDawareness #poetryquotes #PTSDTherapy #romanticpoetry
Groot Vs Korg! Who Wins?
Art by Hazelgee on @deviantart
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Groot Vs Korg! Who Wins? Art by Hazelgee on @deviantart @thegeekrealm @thegeekrealm2 ------------
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Beauty and her Beast

Barbot de Villeneuve was right.
 Inside every cursed beast
 is a man looking to be loved.

http://www.drjohnaking.com/ptsd-recovery/beauty-and-her-beast/

#drjohnaking #dealwithit #poet #dealwithitbook
#ptsdknowledge #ptsdwife #americanpoet #poetryquote #SpokenWordPoetry #ptsdisreal
52.9% of Boys Sexual Abused

The study conducted by the  Indian Govt. Women and Child Development Ministry  said 53.2% of children had experienced one or more forms of sexual abuse.
 Of this,  52.9 % were boys . Boys of all ages, backgrounds and across states had reported sexual abuse.* #humanrights NOT #genderrights
 #protectoursons #givethemavoice

http://www.drjohnaking.com/the-voice/52-9-boys-sexual-abused/

#drjohnaking #dealwithit #dealwithitbook
#myptsd #streetpoetry #facesofptsd
52.9% of Boys Sexual Abused The study conducted by the Indian Govt. Women and Child Development Ministry said 53.2% of children had experienced one or more forms of sexual abuse. Of this, 52.9 % were boys . Boys of all ages, backgrounds and across states had reported sexual abuse.* #humanrights  NOT #genderrights  #protectoursons  #givethemavoice  http://www.drjohnaking.com/the-voice/52-9-boys-sexual-abused/ #drjohnaking  #dealwithit  #dealwithitbook  #myptsd  #streetpoetry  #facesofptsd 
Build the Future You Want to Inhabit

Advice to my 14 year-old daughter and 17 year-old son:
 The job and the life that will bring you the greatest satisfaction, you haven’t invented yet. The interesting jobs are the ones we make up.
 Build the future you want to inhabit.
 Don’t worry about what your “career” is going to be. . . . Do things that you’re interested in, that you can be passionate about. If you do them really well, you’re going to find a way to harness that with a good business opportunity.
 #stress2strength

http://www.drjohnaking.com/ptsd-recovery/build-the-future-you-want-to-inhabit/

#dealwithit #dealwithitbook #drjohnaking
#ptsdwife #poetrycommunity #americanpoet #cptsdrecovery #streetpoetry #poetryquote
Build the Future You Want to Inhabit Advice to my 14 year-old daughter and 17 year-old son: The job and the life that will bring you the greatest satisfaction, you haven’t invented yet. The interesting jobs are the ones we make up. Build the future you want to inhabit. Don’t worry about what your “career” is going to be. . . . Do things that you’re interested in, that you can be passionate about. If you do them really well, you’re going to find a way to harness that with a good business opportunity. #stress2strength  http://www.drjohnaking.com/ptsd-recovery/build-the-future-you-want-to-inhabit/ #dealwithit  #dealwithitbook  #drjohnaking  #ptsdwife  #poetrycommunity  #americanpoet  #cptsdrecovery  #streetpoetry  #poetryquote 
Love it !!
Love it !!
I Believe in Love

I believe in love.
 I believe that the greatest thing a person who has suffered abuse can do for ourselves is never give up.
The greatest “revenge,” or “pay back” we could ever have would be to live a happy, full, and fruitful life. A life of peace, a life of joy, a life of purpose, a life of contentment, that gives safety and security and nurturing to all those that we come into contact with.
 You cannot do that if you see yourself as a victim–always trapped by the past.
 Our past can either define us, confine us or refine us. Regardless of what they have done to us, they didn’t win, because we are still standing. We are still breathing and we are still loving. I believe in love.

http://www.drjohnaking.com/poetry-and-art/believe-love/

#drjohnaking #dealwithit #poet #dealwithitbook
#fuckptsd #ptsdhelp #ptsdrecovery #poetrylives #cptsdrecovery #ptsdrecoveryart
I Believe in Love I believe in love. I believe that the greatest thing a person who has suffered abuse can do for ourselves is never give up. The greatest “revenge,” or “pay back” we could ever have would be to live a happy, full, and fruitful life. A life of peace, a life of joy, a life of purpose, a life of contentment, that gives safety and security and nurturing to all those that we come into contact with. You cannot do that if you see yourself as a victim–always trapped by the past. Our past can either define us, confine us or refine us. Regardless of what they have done to us, they didn’t win, because we are still standing. We are still breathing and we are still loving. I believe in love. http://www.drjohnaking.com/poetry-and-art/believe-love/ #drjohnaking  #dealwithit  #poet  #dealwithitbook  #fuckptsd  #ptsdhelp  #ptsdrecovery  #poetrylives  #cptsdrecovery  #ptsdrecoveryart 
Concerning Abuse, Men Are The Forgotten Gender

Gender rights activist  Harish Iyer  said as far as sexual abuse was concerned men were the “forgotten gender.” A 2007 study had found that more male children in the country were victims of sexual abuse than girls. “It is quite unfortunate that while on one hand, a girl’s sexual abuse is treated as a serious crime, most men are pressured by the society to pass off their sexual abuse as a rite of passage.” #humanrights NOT #genderrights
 #protectoursons #givethemavoice

http://www.drjohnaking.com/the-voice/concern-abuse-men-forgotten-gender/

#drjohnaking #dealwithit #dealwithitbook
#ptsdsupport #ptsdsavior #streetpoetry
Concerning Abuse, Men Are The Forgotten Gender Gender rights activist Harish Iyer said as far as sexual abuse was concerned men were the “forgotten gender.” A 2007 study had found that more male children in the country were victims of sexual abuse than girls. “It is quite unfortunate that while on one hand, a girl’s sexual abuse is treated as a serious crime, most men are pressured by the society to pass off their sexual abuse as a rite of passage.” #humanrights  NOT #genderrights  #protectoursons  #givethemavoice  http://www.drjohnaking.com/the-voice/concern-abuse-men-forgotten-gender/ #drjohnaking  #dealwithit  #dealwithitbook  #ptsdsupport  #ptsdsavior  #streetpoetry 
Don’t Find Time, Schedule Time

Put the big rocks in first:
 Imagine you have a large glass jar and next to it you have a pile of very important rocks, lesser important pebbles and not so important sand, all of which you have to get in the jar. If you put in the sand or pebbles first, what happens? They fill up the space and there is no room for the very important things. But if you add the big rocks first, the things that really matter, then the smaller pebbles, and at the very end, the sand, it all fits.
 For anything important, you don’t find time, you schedule time. It’s only real if it’s on the calendar.
 #stress2strength

http://www.drjohnaking.com/ptsd-recovery/dont-find-time-schedule-time/

#dealwithit #dealwithitbook #drjohnaking
#ptsdrecovery #ptsdsurvivor #ptsdsucks #ptsdawarenes #facesofptsd #SpokenWordPoetry
Don’t Find Time, Schedule Time Put the big rocks in first: Imagine you have a large glass jar and next to it you have a pile of very important rocks, lesser important pebbles and not so important sand, all of which you have to get in the jar. If you put in the sand or pebbles first, what happens? They fill up the space and there is no room for the very important things. But if you add the big rocks first, the things that really matter, then the smaller pebbles, and at the very end, the sand, it all fits. For anything important, you don’t find time, you schedule time. It’s only real if it’s on the calendar. #stress2strength  http://www.drjohnaking.com/ptsd-recovery/dont-find-time-schedule-time/ #dealwithit  #dealwithitbook  #drjohnaking  #ptsdrecovery  #ptsdsurvivor  #ptsdsucks  #ptsdawarenes  #facesofptsd  #SpokenWordPoetry 
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This is awesome